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4194487 tn?1370046144

RelationSH*T

Ive honestly had enough, our relationships runs around in circles, nice for a day or two then back to fighting and argueing all the time. He has no trust for me, i cant talk to ANY boy, cant talk to bisexual or lesbian girls, no love hearts or winky faces to girls or boys, i have to tell him where i am 24/7, cant be anywhere without him. He constantly promises, im not going to bring up the past, this promise is broken EVERY SINGLE TIME. He constantly brings up my ex, saying aw fxck you loved him more you respected him more. NO ! He actually hit me the other day for 'raising my voice at him' but aw its ok, 'i deserved it' WHEN IS IT EVER OK TO HIT YOUR PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND?? He says he'll smash my car, my ipad and bash my friends. Then he has the hype to call me CHILDISH and to grow up?! I tell him how it is, from my brain like, were running in circles we can never go a week without argueing, he cant keep a promise to me, my baby or himself and in the end hes like aw f*ck this. I told him yeah, goodluck ever finding someone like me that will put up with your BULLSHxT because youll never find a girl like me! I can assure you NO girl will ever put up with what I did. He turns around and says yeah actually i have. I said your longest relationship has been THREE months! Apparently he gets sick of rooting the same girl, when in realtity, he gets way to jealous and he doesnt know how to handle it. Girls sorry for the long vent but if you have had a relationship like this, dont suffer any longer, dont listen to his threats, leave and be happy. Relationships are not going to work out great if its solely for your child, because yous will still argue, have issues and people rarely change. Im only 17, young, but id rather do this by myself then suffer with him. RANT OVER!
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4545793 tn?1394592544
You cant take ownership of his issues he has deep seeded trust issues and he cant own up to them and stare reality in the face..you need to do the best for u and your baby..if he lives with u then he needs to go somewhere else and since he is violent I would take extra precautions.you cant give attitude back bc its not going to help someone needs to be the adult and just handle it rationally..but yes sounds like alot of drama
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4270856 tn?1355798754
Leave.
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4762847 tn?1360881934
Leave, now. That's not a situation you or your baby needs to be in. Hell I'd even recommend a restraining order. He's much to immature and does he realize just how illegal laying a finger on you is? I'd leave his sorry *** and give him a nice swift kick in the balls on my way out.
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