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people are so rude !

We are waiting for a table at a very crowded restaurant. After waiting for 20min I finally spot a chair ! (Thank God!) So I waddle over there being obviously very very pregnant. And a dad and son literally run to take the chair ! So I find another and the wife and GMA run to the other 2 !

She says oh my moms handicapped. I wanted to slap her and say b I t c h you your son and your husband aren't!
I look around and literally every chair has a younger adult or child in it.

My son will be a gentlemen and stand for elderly people and pregnant people !
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I would of given her the most dirtiest look ever and asked her if her son and husband were handicapp as well. People these days!
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5623087 tn?1377889284
Btw I'm 36+5 weeks nd my dad says it looks more like I'm carrying twins than just one cause my son is so big lol nd I'm all front nd very small to begin with so its funny to see people point at my belly or hear my family talk about it lol its so fun to b big XD
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5623087 tn?1377889284
Yea nobody really has manners these days but i was at a bar and grill with my parents a couple weekends ago and we were there to sing karaoke and have fun well i had to use the restroom so i went to the back where they were located nd i asked a lady who was by the door if she was in line wondering if the door was open she said yes but said i could go ahead of her but i politely turned her down because i wasn't in a big rush but i thought it was very nice of her to offer :) if only more people were like that lady she was so sweet :)
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6807969 tn?1389282822
I know the feeling, I was on a city bus the other week that was packed and I'm visibly pegnant. Nobody got up to offer a seat and I was afraid I'd have to stand the whole way to where I was going. Thankfully I know the driver well and she asked that someone give up a seat because I'm pregnant and its a risk for me to stand on the bus. I will be raising my son to have manners that's for sure
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People can be so rude.  The saying I always say about men "they don't make em like they use to" people need to raise these boys up to be good men.
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Extremely rude ! Like I said my son will have manners
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6389103 tn?1390499202
Wow! Ya it seems like ppl now days care less if ur prego or not...
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6725113 tn?1392847526
Smh. That is VERY rude. My last pregnancy my hubby and I went to a party of a friends at a really nice place. They had plenty of tables but not enough chairs. There was a few of us standing up and I was obviously huge and pregnant & NOBODY offered up their chair. They were just stairing at me. After about 20 mins of leaning against a wall I had to sit dOwn. My husband all the sudden said he would be right Back & then returned with his lawn chair he had in his truck from tailgating.  He popped it open and I say down and then at least THREE people got up and offered their seat.. AFTER my hubby brought me the chair. I jUst glared like really?  So what if I looked completely tacky in my lawnchair in the super decorated party,  I was comfy thanks to my wonderful man (who BTW always offers his seat to any woman.  Old, pregnant, or whatever because he was raised to be a gentleman, something most men seem to be lacking)
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Seriously ! And the son was at least 16-17 years,old enough to realize I was going over to the chair ! Even my mom was like are you serious !!
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6470732 tn?1439556292
The husband at least should have stood up and let you sit. Especially having a son, he should have known what it was like when his wife was pregnant...
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