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Is it bad that my sex drive is close to zero lately :( I hope my hubby doesn't feel neglected, I still spoil him with other things outside the bedroom and keep our love strong.  It's just since I've fallen preggies it seems to be gone . We had sex once and I had light pink spotting afterwards maybe it's my subconscious telling me its a no go zone lol? Is it bad? Sorry for tmi but how's yours ?
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5574172 tn?1376700381
Before I found out I was pregnant I would throw up every time we did it, then I quit throwing up & now it just hurts really bad so my whole pregnancy so far I've had NO sex drive! & I'm now 29 wks. :/ my poor hubby, he just say I don't want to hurt you.
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I lost my sex drive too. I hope it comes back soon lol
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5787494 tn?1387148684
My boyfriend complains too. We went from having sex almost daily to maybe twice a week. Now he asks me none stop for oral which trust me gets very annoying. He says he has needs. I just tell him its not my fault I don't crave it as much. Some nights even when I don't really desire it I will still do it just to keep him happy. He makes up for the annoying talk about it all the time by being sweet and taking care of me in general so I guess I can't complain to much.
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Mine is completely gone :/
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5793899 tn?1374391371
*aren't (sorry)
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5793899 tn?1374391371
You guys are the only one... I have no desire either and my hubby expresses his felings about it but he just makes up for it by being touchy feely I guess (cuddling, pillow talk, romantic dates). I heard that a some point in your pregnancy you will get your drive back but idk how true that is :(
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My sex drive is the same way. I'm almost 38 weeks and sex is like non existent.  He tells me all the time "you better be ready after that baby" lol he understands and he says he doesnt wana hurt me so hed rather wait.
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5426152 tn?1382129604
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I am in the same boat. I just want to be left alone. My hubby is vocal about it though which annoys me to no end. He says he understands but if he did he would stop complaining.
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