Im 41 weeks and a ftm.I've been having contractions, real ones since Sunday. Yesterday when they were five minutes apart and stronger I went to the hospital and they sent me back because I wasn't in active labor and my uterus was 1 cm opened.here I've been since Sunday having contractions not sleeping or eating right.my contractions get closer and farther.I'm afraid to go to the hospital just to get sent back home.I feel like I can't take this anymore.how do I dilate faster??