So scared of a miscarriage.. Help :(

[SoConfusedRightNow]

I know I'm only 6+4 weeks but everytime someone refers to my baby as the baby I kind of freak out like I'm afraid to get attached and really think about having the baby because I'm so scared of a miscarriage.... I've never had one and this is my first pregnancy but I'm scare of losing my baby :(

[russian_dancer44]

Oops posted twice cause I thought the other one didnt post. Sorry!

[russian_dancer44]

Im also 6 weeks and pregnant with my first at the same age. Telling your family is rough but eventually they will come around. I know my fami. Is actually being very supportive right now. If youre religious pray. Thats all you can do. I have found so much confort in praying and having faith that god will plan whats best for me and this baby.maybe if your family isnt being supportive tell a friend who can support you and keeps things a secret until you get farther along. I will pray for you and your pregnancy and hope that our babies will be carried full term and become very healthy and strong. Hang in there and remember these forums are here for us new mommies to ask all the unkowns cause theres a lot! Hope this helps!

[russian_dancer44]

Im also 6 weeks with my first child and have been feeling the same way. If youre religious, pray,  thats all you can do and its helped to calm my nerves tremendously. I go on for my first scan in two weeks and dying to see my baby. This so new and unknown for us new mommies that we have to understand whatever happens we cant control. The only power we have now is to relax, rest, eat well, and take care of your body and have faith everythibg will work out. Trust me I know how you feel about all this. Im 19 and had to tell my family and it wasnt easy but now weeks later they are being extremely supportive and actually excited. Your family will come around and trust me that support will mean the world to you right now. And of not, maybe tell a friend you know will be supportive either way. Hope this helps and hope we can both come out of this with healthy babies :))

[Jessiebaby21]

I'm 30+4 and I'm still worried something's gunna happen. Every time I don't feel her move I freak out. Good luck and congrats

[Sasha_90]

I was worried too at the beginning... But it's not good for the baby, so I just said what happens happens... Now I am 28 weeks along lol...

[SoConfusedRightNow]

Thanks :) I know, im trying not to worry.. I just went to tell my mum but she ended up taking the conversation her way and telling me I need a better job to support her going thru uni and stuff.. Now I feel like I'm ruining her life and I didn't tell her...

[Ezza04]

Don't stress, if u stress out u may, and if u do have a miscarriage which I hope u don't, its not ur fault, things like that happen, sometimes for the best. Just relax and enjoy it.

[SoConfusedRightNow]

I'm 18 so I'm not underage :) I've been to the drs once.. Me and my boyfriend were thinking about taking her out for a coffee and telling her

[skittle_nuts]

All you have to do is sit them down and tell them don't get me wrong they will get mad and not know what to say but they will come around :) and just when your friends talk about baby things just think about positive things like holding him/her in your arms ^_^ but you really need to talk to your parents especially if your underage you need to be going to the doctors

[SoConfusedRightNow]

Thanks :) my mum doesn't even know I've had sex yet lol my boyfriend lives with us so I know she's expecting us to have sex but not a baby lol I just don't know how to say it lol :) my boyfriend is actually happy which makes me feel better... I'm tryin not to worry about a miscarriage but it's just when my friends want to look at baby things I worry

[skittle_nuts]

I hope everything goes fine with your pregnancy as long as you take things easy and go to the doctor regularly you should be okay don't strain your self or stress your self out it ain't healthy I was scared of a miscarriage to but I'm 7 months pregnant I'm 16 about to be 17 and I was scared to tell anyone but you have to think about you and your baby now

[skittle_nuts]

I hope everything goes fine with your pregnancy as long as you take things easy and go to the doctor regularly you should be okay don't strain your self or stress your self out it ain't healthy I was scared of a miscarriage to but I'm 7 months pregnant now just tell your parents any your boyfriend I'm 16 about to be 17 and I was scared to tell anyone but you have to think about you and your baby now