Sooo depressed

[Haliwali]

I am a plus size women an was tryin to loose weight before I got pregnet. Now I am pregnet I hardly work out. Everyday at work people make comments related to my weight an I am soo fedup. I women at work actually said I look huge,fat umba lumba an how soon I wouldnt be able to see nt selv in the mirror coz I am soo wife.. She made me soo upset I just smiled an didnt wanna over react. However it really got to me I cant stop thinking abt what she said. I am 21 weeks+5days. I dont wanna get any bigger..i feel like **** right noow.

[hotmama78]

Is okay hun... I just want you to see it from skinny small people point of view so here u go...!! Be blessed that you fall into the miracle that not all can. About that big mouth people who only got bad words to say ignore them time will pay for it :)

Cheers...
Rachel..

[Haliwali]

Hotmama I am sory to hear that. I hope your gona be blessed with a lil miracle veryy soon. Thanks for your kind words. Thank you all I feel soo much better.

[hotmama78]

You know hun... the next time she saying something like that to you... give her the nicest smile you can, look at her thru firmly and say I am the one who carrying a miracle here so honey if got nothing nice to say... say nothing at all and walk away still with the smile at your face...!! Some people just really brainless so don't get depress for someone like that. Not worthy... for me the most beautiful woman in the world is not beauty queen but the one that got growing peanut in they stomach and what size got to do with it. I am skinny small but I can't even carry baby full term.. don't I suppose to be more poorer and depress then u are...?? Plus I am sure I am not alone :(

Lots love..
Rachel

[cindy82]

Omg how horrible someone to say that to you!!! Your way better person than they will ever think about being!! I have been big and small and it's like either your to big or to small. I just don't understand how people can judge us on just our looks!! Just remember she prob trying to just make her misrable pethetic life look better when in fact yours is better than there's. I lost a lot of weight in the past year. I went from 220 to 140. Then ended up pregnant lol. I don't give a rats if I gain double as long as my baby is healthy :) congrats on your pregnacy and just remember, your better than they are!!!!

[rachb11]

I am plus size myself. You tell this chick that you can easily lose your weight once your beautiful baby is born, but she can't fix ugly!!! (: you are beautiful no matter what size!!! She on the other hand has proven herself ugly by her personality. Grrrrrr it makes me so mad when people act like that. I've been big my whole life i always had people pick on me. She is a freaking adult acting like a child. That's just so insane to me. Like i said, dish it back out to her! But just remember you are waaaaay more beautiful than she could ever be!

[missmommyd]

Tell her to shut the help up!.. stand up for' urself and use those lovely pregnancy hormones... ur pregnant.. this is the time to put on the pounds.. i was underweight so i had to gain MORE..

[Haliwali]

Thanks momofal I am sort that ***** out tomorrow. myselv worth is not measured by a bloody scale.

[momofalmostfive]

I myself am a plus size woman. I was losing weight before found out i was pregnant,i am 32 weeks and haven't gained a pound. As long as you watch what you eat, and at least walk you probably won't gain any weight. But ignore these rude ignorant people at your work. There are plenty beautiful plus size woman out there and there is nothing wrong with us. Keep your head up girl!!!

[JewelzD]

congratz and Ill be waiting lol

[Haliwali]

Thanks ladies you guys make made me feel soo much better.jewelzd woow hun welldone I am soo gona take you up on that iam having the baby girl on march 16.

[JewelzD]

OH NO people need a sensor on their mouths like my mother has always said if you have nothing nice to say dont say anything at all. I am also a plus size girl and i am happy with me. I have 3 amazing kids 10y 3y 4months. I am now on a diet i lost my dad and i got to thinking i want to be healthy for me and my kids i want to watch my daughter get married she is my only baby girl i want to see my grandkids if they bless me with any. If you want to lose weight do it for you not what people think of you F them they are nothing they hate them selfs so they have to make other people down. I can help you with losing if you want after the baby is born i have lost 63lbs in 3 months its amazing I can run again lol i was 315lbs when i gave birth.

[almostmommyof2]

Don't worry bout what people say I'm overweight as well and.wanted to loose weight before I got pregnant but things don't always work the way u want them to they work the way they are meant to be.

[Britt93]

I know how you feel I was losing weight too before I got pregnant. I got picked on and was a loner all my life because of the way I look. My self concious is horrible. I dont even like getting undressed in front of my babys dad anymore

[Flickan]

I was losing weight before getting pregnant as well. Lost 40 lbs as of august. Now I'm only 5 weeks, but the mental issues that go along with gaining some of this weight back is difficult.  That woman at work us harassing you and should be turned into HR.  The thing is your not in this alone and as hard as it is, things will only get to us if we let them. So don't believe it....besides ive heard some women lose  a ton of weight just by breastfeeding.

[Haliwali]

That really made me cry..thank you soo much. I really wanna enjoy my pregnacy an wish they would leave me alone. My selv esteem is already low she just made it hit zero. I know as soon as I hav this baby I am work my butt off. I just wanna feel beautiful an dont wanna feel like the whole world is judging me.

[elizabethhhkitty]

tell them to shut the **** up. your size is not what makes you beautiful. your mind does that sounds cleashae or however you spell it but its true. your beautiful inside and out. my mother is plus size and always has been and i have always looked up to her nd thought she was beautiful. she thinks poorley of herself and thinks shes so fat but i look at her different shes my mother and i think ses beautiful in every way and i wouldnt change a thing about her. your child will think the same. there are ALOT of plussize beautiful women out there. your one of them!