stressed out!!

[kmrteenmommy]

I'm just in a rant, my mom is phcitsophranic and her husband recently died she was in the mental institute from the month he died (june) til last month.. She hasn't done barely anything for me my whole life..and she's driving me crazy!!! She keeps asking me for money and I don't even have a job! My fiance does but she wants us to pay for things for her car and we can't afford it! He pays almost 250 a month just for insurance on his car. Not counting our other bills, baby stuff, food, amoung other things. I'm getting very stressed she shows up unexpectedly all hours with her crazy sh*t me and my sister quit talking because she took her bf back (who has beaten her and MYSELF up) I'm trying to get thru highschool,now planning my own baby shower cuz my mom skipped out on that too and I have my glucose test tomorrow morning she's making me so sttressed!!!! Sorry for all the personal crap I'm just so stressed out..I'm starting to get very worried because my baby girl hasn't kicked once since two days ago.. I'm 27weeks+3days could it be a growth spurt? Or is my stress hurting her...idk what to do:'(

[kmrteenmommy]

I just sat down and relaxed and she started wiggling around I was so worried for a second I thought my stress was hurting her... But yes, my mother never takes her meds. She hasn't been normal for months.. And her drs don't care, they say I'm to young to make a report and I'm not her power of autorney so I can't do anything about it but tell my aunt.. Its a very stressful matter and I wish I could just leave her hanging like she did me when I was little but I can't find it in my heart

[nonishy]

You need to call your dr about the baby not kicking in 2 days. That's the one thing you need to do right this minute.
Secondly, i think your mom may be off her meds. You need to call adult services on her, to get her checked out. Or if you know her drs number call them and let them know what's going on with her. So they can give you info on how to help her, or what to do.