depressed someone help please!

[neeeeksx]

am 20 years old with my first baby I am 12 weeks and 2 days am due to go for my scan Monday 17th dec however I already got sent for a scan when I was 7 weeks as I had been having pains but am scared when a go on Monday they are going to tell me something is wrong with the baby mean one minute my belly is hard next it's not one minute it looks like a bump next it doesn't can anyone give me some advice or something please I keep getting myself upset about it and my boyfriend which is the babies dad keeps promising me everything will be okay but a know it won't be please help

[rachyrou]

Its ok I know how worrying it is. My first pregnancywas an early miscarriage but I've had a little.girl since and my little boy is due in eight days. I've had los of stomach pains with my daughter.and this pregnancy and it was normal. Look up round ligament pain :)

[neeeeksx]

thank you for your help xx

[rachyrou]

You won't be gaining much weight at this point, also the pains are normal had it with three pregnancies. Your body is stretching etc. If you're worried call your midwife but if she isn't worried I'd try not to panic. I'm here if you want to talk just pop me a message. Tightneings can be Braxton hicks. Nothing to worry about. If you start bleeding very heavily or blood is bright red, with severe pain or regular painful contractions, head to a and e or labour ward. Or call a midwife that's what they are there for. I'm sure you'll be fine xx

[neeeeksx]

not bleeding at all just had browny discharge but they said it's common in pregnancy the pains are like period pains sometimes but when I explained to the midwife about it she said they are fine too but I still think something is wrong. Sometimes it's a tight feeling and not always there just now and again. I lost weight when I had bad morning sickness for 4 weeks but still not managing to put the weight back on scales never seem to budge x

[rachyrou]

Hun stomach pains are a normal and not so fun part of pregnancy. If you experience bleeding with them or severe pain then.you.should be checked but pains are normal. Now at twelve weeks you really wouldn't have much of a bump.at all,.a lot of it would be bloating which is common in first trimester. Your stomach hardens. Do you feel like you're having tightenings? These could be Braxton.hicks practice contractions..as long as they don't hurt a lot and aren't regular its fine x