Teen Moms, & Their Baby Daddy, .-. relationshipQuestion

[BklynBellaKoda]

Do you really think that you and your babies father aren't going to work out? everyone wants to compare mine and my daughters father to their experiences.. and it really makes me mad, because yes there was a lot of things that happened in the beginning but now he is more supportive and WANTS to be there. for me and my daughter. I am 32 weeks, and I can NOT wait to meet my little angel <3
and neither can her father.. but just because other people are having problems or had problems with their childs father doesn't always mean everybody else will.... right?

[Mzkay03]

True Ms lady!! It seems they.want u in the same boat as them!.dont feed into their negativity, everyone makes mistakes and can change for the better! Maybe ur BD has changed.and learned!! Good luck to yall

[Mom_2_Be_4]

Right baby follow your heart and don't let any one make you do something that you don't want to do, if he is the one you want to be with stay with him. Everybody have they ups and downs. People would try they best to bring you down where they are but you have to be that strong minded person to not listen to the BS but good luck hun on your new baby and your family. Just pray and leave it in god hands

[jLove1992]

Me and bf r fine ill b 20 next month n hes 18 everyone thought we weren't.gonna wrk cuz he was young n we proved everyone wrong its our 2nd baby im 39+6 we lost our daughter she was 6 months we defiantly had our problems but r stronger then ever

[BklynBellaKoda]

IM hoping, but i do believe we will stay together we've been threw so much stress and drama already. I know we love eachother, and can do it....but i agree, using all of this as our advantage to prove people wrong...i think and an hoping it works.thanks everyone for advice

[DNP47]

I got pregnant at 18 and me and the babys father have been happily married for 7 years.....not all teen pregnancies have to end with broken relationships, some times Both parents grow up, get good jobs and live happily with their kids.

[ladii_keya]

I have that problem. I'm 19 my bf is 21 &' even though we planned this pregnancy &' he's ridiculously excited my family is positive that we wont last or that he'll be a bad dad just because they've experienced such things in the past. Its a constant comparison luckily my bf says that people sayin such things are motivation to be the best dad he can be.. use the criticism to yur advantage &' take it as a challenge to prove everyone wrong .. so far that approach has worked for us

[jennibugz]

Look past** an thats what matters. As long as the daddy is there for you. Dont let others scare you. To each their own

[jennibugz]

I had that problem. Still do. Noone can lok padt the young parent thing without a little questioning. Its alright though, my baby dad an I are good. Have alot to sort out, but we're a good team and couple an we knpw we can work through things.

[FreshLove]

I agree that every relationship is different and am glad that your boyfriend is stepping up. However, things change after the baby shows up as life gets really stressful, and that's when problems tend to occur (even in great, stable relationships/marriages a baby tends to put strain on the relationship). Some couples make it through this stressful time, and others, especially if the baby daddy doesn't feel 100% committed or is only there if things go smoothly, don't and end up splitting. So really, it depends on how you guys work through tough problems if you will make it or not. Best of luck.

[Raevicious]

Every relationship is different :) I'm glad your man is stepping up. Don't let those whos baby daddy's aren't in the picture scare you