VENTING!!!!

[pandamomnium]

im 33 weeks pregnant. My bd has had almost nothing to do with me or my pregnancy, in the beggining he told me he didnt even want our baby. He treated me like dog **** ALL THE TIME he didnt care about my safety at all. He got mad at me for not riding four wheelers any more. Like really how friggin stupid can you be. . . His family completely turned on me after HE LEFT ME AT A RESTRAUNT, ALONE, CRYING, AND 4 MONTHS PREGNANT!!!!!! After that my dad told him to not talk to me and anything he had to say can go through him. Not one time even while we were together did he EVER ask if he could do ANYTHING for me. He wouldnt even go get me food. Or anything when I was so nauseous and throwing up all the time. He never helped with anything.  The only thing I ever heard out of his mouth regarding the baby was "I cant afford child support" OR him calling me a ***** because I was moody. . .and now that hes talked to a lawyer hes hitting my dad up asking what he can do for me. WTF REALLY DUDE???? WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I HAD TO ASK FOR HELP BUYING A DAM CRIB??? But no. Now that im almost due hes asking. That just P! $$ES me off to no end!!! Youre either gonns be there for me and my son or you can take your sorry @$$ on down the roaD!!!!!! UGH!!! Dude doesnt even ask how im doing or our son is doing. Hes not once offered any help till now. . .and omg. . .you would think a man would want to help with his kid right? Hes almost 28 years old and still acting like a 10 year old . . .ok. .rant over. . .

[ireloc]

I can guarantee he is now asking 2 hat he can do because whoever else he spoke to, or if he did actually speak to a lawyer, told him that he would be liable for child support -and that starts from when you file. Arrearages don't ever go away until their paid. And in some states they can take and way his license or even put him in jail for non payment.  So, I would start getting court papers ready, child support, custody, visitation.

[serenity_1528]

Oh my gosh girl. Wow. "F" that loser. And I thought Ihad a deadbeat dad. Thats just crazy. Sometimes I think men never grow up!

[majo_hikari]

Yep, slap child support on that child, 100% agree.

[DestinyLuvv]

Agree ^^:)

[xxXxshannon23xx]

Next time he asked what he can do tell him that he can make sure to make his child support payments on time when you file for it in a few weeks lol