VENTING :'(

[mommy_94]

I woke up crying because of these stupid dreams!! Every night I have really bad nightmares about my hubby cheating on me or me leaving him or some type of family problem! I swear everyday it's like a roller-coaster for me, I feel so angry because I can't control my emotions! Like I just want to be happy, my hubby does whatever to try to see me smile and I love him for that but at times I feel so distant from him I feel like I can't love him right and it's driving me crazy!!!! I used to be so in love with him and it feels like we're falling apart for some reason and I've talked to him about it and he says it's me because he doesn't feel that way, I just don't understand :'( the last thing I want is to be with him but why aren't I happy!!!? I cry about this quite often I'm tired of feeling alone because I know I'm not and I know all of this is hurting him too!!! I just wish my mind can stop focusing on all this and focus on the baby since he's almost here, could this be the hormones?  I really don't understand what's going on

[whisper9008]

See as I said it's normal. Try my suggestions or if any of the other ladies have suggestions for dealing with this issue I'd love to know what they did. I'm actually a first time mom myself, I just know what I've already experienced and how I've dealt with it as well as the things my DR suggested. There's been a LOT of reading and research to help keep me from freaking out and the dreams and feelings of distance from my SO were my first pregnancy symptom aside from my breast. Just keep your head up. It really will get better.

[cc_panda]

Wow! I just had dreams of anything and everything! Although nothing like cheating husband or something bad, but things like... tall appartment buildings, tiger, shopping, chicken?!, fle market, in-laws, my husband there beside me, wedding, funeral, escaping from somebody, driving a car and playing computer RPG game at the same time, forest, maps etc. So far my dreams have been quite creative. lol

[feliciaschult2325]

I feel the same way with my boyfriend and he does a great job of putting up with me and the alone thing I feel that way all the time definitely the hormones everyone else me it is bc I never was like that till getting pregnant

[l3xabug]

Same thing happened to me when I was pregnant with my daughter.. but I found out the only reason why I was having them was because of the prescription for heart burn medication my doctor had gave to me.. but it is just your hormones. . I HATED my husband the whole time I was pregnant now my daughters 3 months old and I'm pregnant again and I hate him it's just our hormones everything will turn around promise stay strong and congrats on being a mommy:)

[Matts_Mommy2014]

Same here. I can't stand these dreams. I just get so scared but I know my fiance wouldn't do it. He is the only person I've ever had full trust in.

[vbaal]

My gooodness you couldnt of said this any better!! I just had a dream that my hubby had a girl om his lap flirting with her so i went back up to our house paxked my stuff and left to houston with my sister. I woke up sooo mad! Haha but my husband and i are deeeeeeply in love and happy and i know he wouldnt do anything to hurt me or break our family.

DEFF THE HORMONES

[mommy_94]

Thanks I really hope I stop feeling this way when our little one is here!

[lynnette23]

It is completely normal its caused by hormones. If u want reassurance talk to your doc he or she will tell you the same thing.

[mommy_94]

@whisper9008 so the feeling of distance and loneliness and all that is normal?

[mommy_94]

Bump

[whisper9008]

The dreams are a hormonal reaction. If you find yourself having trouble during your waking hours with your SO then try going on a real date (doesn't have to be expensive,  My SO just took us to the dog park and then out for frozen yogurt. ) or try sex. It sounds crazy but it really does help to have sex with your SO during pregnancy to increase the feelings of closeness, love,  stability,  and a few other things brought on by the chemicals released during orgasm.

[everley2014]

It's the hormones. I would have dreams like that too. Where bf was cheating on me, or even sometimes i was cheating on him. And I've never cheated on him. I would wake up upset in the mornings because i felt like the dreams were so real or that they were a sign. They weren't. You might also have nightmares about scary things too, that happens to a lot of pregnant women.

[MrsEvans0o]

GIRL!!!! I have woke up crying too bc of these stupid dreams. I always have nightmares about a family member dying or my bf cheating. Its so scary

[mommy_94]

**last thing I want is to break up with him