Don't shave!!!
I struggle with same issue just wax it off for me it grows back less that way
That's good to hear & my body hair black that's why it's so noticeable & my husband laughs because my happy trail is darker than his
It'll thin out after you deliver without you having to touch it. My body hair is typically blond but my happy trail grew in black last time! But it all fell out pretty quick after delivery. Still, I totally get how frustrating it is!