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5627474 tn?1374148775

a virgin is obssessed with my pregnancy

Ok so I work with a girl who was born with fetal alcohol syndrom. And I honestly do feel bad for her. She 26 yrs old is 4'7" tall. 85 lbs. She has never had a boy friend. But for real. She talks about wanting a baby soo bad has names and themes and everything chosen already ,and She is like obsessed with me being pregnant. She was touching my belly every time I saw her til I rubbed hers back. She stares at me...like even if I'm walking behind her she turns around to look at me. I wanna tell her to just take a freaken picture already. And when I have to work with her in the same dining room. She is shoved right up my butt, can hardly concentrate on her work because she is too busy fussing over me askin about everything pregnancy related she can possibly think of. And That's only the start of her obssessiveness. I seriously had a dream she killed me and stole my baby. Like I said I feel bad, and I know its not her fault but she's so weird!
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That is a little freaky, but she is probably just anxious and curious. Some people who have baby fever like that can be a little over the top, my sister somewhat acts in a similar manner but she knows when enough is enough. I would definitely tell her how it makes you uncomfortable and ask her to lay off a little bit and talk with your manager or something about it.
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2020005 tn?1628125976
I would try talking to her about it first of all, just ask that she stop questions and rubbing your belly (nicely of course), that it makes you uncomfortable, if that doesn't help it, def. have a talk with your manager.
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Omfg soo creepy. Doll I'd speak to ur boss. Boarding harrassment
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I would talk to your manager about the sitouation...you should not have to dread going to work because of her. Like stalking in the workplace or something lol. So not ok...
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5787652 tn?1378038509
Wow, that's weird!!!
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5627474 tn?1374148775
Today she walked all the way to my dining room to say hi. Ugh
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That is so creepy.. I would try to nicely confront her about it and see what happens.
But for some reason this was making me think of the character Eunice off of "She's the man" with Amanda Bynes.. Lol
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*Would
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Thats just creepy. I would talk to your boss anout changing shifts or working different days. Ugh i eould dread going to work.
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5627474 tn?1374148775
She creeps me right out! I get that she's curious. Never even having a bf and all. But she needs to just leave me alone! She goes back to college in september and it can't come soon enough!
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I have a brother who has FAS and that chick is crazy.. I totally understand special needs but that is just weird.  I worked with a girl who was special needs who is married and liked me and opened told me she wants to be my baby's father O.o sometimes I wonder what goes through their minds.. Just hang in there.. And tell her in a nice way it bothers you.
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This gave me the creeps.. id prob end up quitting! i know you cant do that but imagine how she will be once u have the baby she will prob ask you to hang out or find out whsre you live. i wish i had some advice for you but honestly that is freaky.. and she cant help it so id just let her down easy then disappear LOL
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Damn lol id leave work..
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