argument :/

[lexbre]

My bf mad because i want a nursey... this my FIRST child and his second. We have two bedroom BUT it has a bed and everything already for her when she comes in the summer i feel theres no room for a crib and i want a nursey, ladies am i wrong for wanting a three bedroom?

[rebeccaann11]

I missed the last part of your post. I take my statement back agreeing with your husband. I first thought you were trying to take the room away from the 10 year old. I don't know how I missed the 3 bedroom house part? I need to open my eyes and read better.

[rebeccaann11]

no you're not wrong at all for wanting a bigger home. You have every reason to want a three bedroom home. You're going to have to Two children in your home. The oldest is going to want her space.

[rebeccaann11]

if you must make that room a nursery. I would at least talk to the 10 year old before you do.

[rebeccaann11]

but where else will she sleep? I would leT the 10-year-old keep her room

[lexbre]

Thats what im saying like if i was 10 i wouldnt want to share a room with a baby hes taking it wrong smh

[FirstTimeMommy89]

Yea I would definitely get a three bedroom so the oldest won't feel replaced

[ash060115]

We have a three bed house.....

But this baby will still be in my room for the first while.  And when the time comes for moving bby into a room - our daughter will have a choice of keeping her room or moving to the other room.

I think you need to consider your older daughters feelings :/ x

[rebeccaann11]

the 10-year-old might feel like she's been pushed out. Think about it, if you want to your dads house and all your stuff was moved out of the room and the new baby stuff with in place of it. You would feel like you've been replaced. At 10 years old she's not going to say
"oh well they need the room for the baby."

[rebeccaann11]

but she's 10. Were Else will she sleep? She's also going to want some personal space. if she's with you guys  the whole summer. She's not going to want to sleep on a couch the whole summer.

[rebeccaann11]

honestly though a lot of moms will have their babies in their room after their board for the first few months. So it's very unlikely that your child Will be sleeping in that room. If you do have your child in there that's great. But I see where your husband coming from

[lexbre]

Thank you he thinks im acting funny like why should a baby have to share a run with a 10 year old just summer or not.

[rebeccaann11]

maybe a little honestly. I would maybe have a bed in there for his other child with she comes. you could easily have a nursery with a twin size bed in the room as well.

[knufrio]

Nope, you aren't wrong at all. We have a three bedroom and one will become a nursery. This is our first and my hubby agrees we will need another home though before we have another because I will not have my kids share a room and our third bedroom is my husbands office.

[PBaby1]

I don't think your wrong. It would make things easier