I'm currently 29 weeks pregnant and my boyfriends family has done nothing but stress me out... I've tried so hard to be nice to them for the past 3 years, but during my pregnancy they have just been rude and talk about me behind my back, especially his mother..
I wanted to plan 2 separate baby showers, and my boyfriends mother had nothing planned, she didn't even have anywhere to have the shower. So with me having a good heart I told her don't worry about it, we can just have one shower and both grandmothers can plan together... My bfs mother has done absolutely nothing, I asked her to get me addresses for her side of the family, I waited TWO WEEKS & she still didn't get them, so I went and got them myself. My mother has asked her if she can do the favors and she said "oh no I couldn't possibly do that" we asked her to bring food if she wants, she's making a pasta salad and bringing waters with her Walmart discount, let's see if that happens. She hasn't chipped in or called my mother once to ask if she needed anything. So she had the nerve to call my boyfriend and say well why wasn't my name on the invites too? UHM MAYBE BECAUSE YOU DIDNT PLAN OR HELP IN ANYWAY! My dad loses his job the day of my shower so my mom has been stressing and asked me to get a quick estimated head count from his side of the family even though the rsvp date is July 25th, I explained to everyone why I asked early and they were nice about it. I post my registry on my fb because nobody from his side or mine has bought from it and my cousin wrote a comment about people should start buying stuff and his aunt who talked with my bfs mom decided to write a smart *** remark saying she can read and maybe nobody has rsvpd because it's the 25th to rsvp... & all I said was, in pretty sure we had a conversation about why I asked everyone early, everyone from your side told me who was and was not coming, so if the assuming could stop that'd be great. & it turned into a whole huge argument. I don't even want them at the shower anymore. They all just ganged up on me on Facebook for them assuming **** was about them like they always do... I'm just done at this point....