18 years old and in a problem

[selena_santiago23]

I am 18 years old and I'm pregnant with my 2nd child I am 5 weeks pregnant and with my first child I had a c section she is now 7 months old and I'm scared cause I hope my body healed so I can have a non risky pregnancy . I told the father and he said ohh.  Well you know what we gotta do . But I don't want an abortion how do I tell him no , he said if I keep it we can't live together that dosent make sense for shitt. And tomarrow I have ultrasound to see the baby and see how the baby is doing and he's going . What can I do to change his mind or how should I react when I see him look at the ultrasound  ? Any advice will help

[Sammy_Bump]

Keep it!!!!

[selena_santiago23]

Mommaof2under10.  You made me smile . Thank you . God bless you and your family.

[selena_santiago23]

Mommaof2under10.
Exactly I think this happend for a reason and I'm nothing but excited and nervous scared all at the same time .

[mommaof2under10]

I got pregnant at 18 with my second child I'm now al oat 20 and having my third ! Things will work out , everything happens for a reason (:

[selena_santiago23]

Thank you so much it's very appreciated that someone out there wishes that for me. And for that I'll send a prayer for you and your kids and nd husband . Thanks again god bless

[babyalexa15]

Your welcome yea just have some patience with him and I wish everything will turn out how u want for him to accept and get involve good luck and as well i wish u the best with your family and enjoy your baby and your new to come bundle of joy

[selena_santiago23]

Thanks for the feedback back baby Alexa you made me realize done things hopefully he accepts tomarrow when we go to ultrasound.  God bless you and your family

[babyalexa15]

I was 16 years old when I got prego and my bf told me I had to get an abortion  I cryed so much I thought he didn't love me and as time was passing he ended up changing his mind and now tmy baby is 3 years old and he can't live woth out him he spoils he a lot honestly my son gets everything he wants from him mostly than me ...I was turning 19 when I got prego again and he felt so happy bcuz this time I was 19 and not just that he was 23/and he have a better living and makes more money with his own business company and he was excited and my daugter is 10 weeks old and everything better so don't feel bad little by little he will accepted this was my experience I am not talking about being well economically but I feel it was bcuz of that he was graduating high school when I was prego so maybe bcuz he didn't have a good job I would say but good luck I wish he changes his mine I am no body to judge u or blame u but I think it was too early to get prego again but like am saying I can't judge u but after having ur second baby take care of yourself and get on birthcontrol with all my respect...

[Mickey_baybeegirlbel]

In the end it's your choice. Nothing you do or say will change his mind. Time may change his mind. But you are strong and will make the best decision for you. You will be a great mother to your second child and he hopefully will be a great father, whether you guys are together or not. My boyfriend said the same thing at first and when I told him I was going through with it he told me he would leave. After a month or 2, he came around and is very supportive. Sometimes it just takes time. But you also need to think if you want to be with someone who isn't willing to step up to the plate.