Thanks I hope he comes soon too
My dr said checking for cervical dilation is not an indication that labor is near. If it was, my baby would already be here, lol. I'm 34 weeks and 1cm dilated and 30% effaced, and yes they can feel babys head already. Its completely normal to either be dilated or not as your stage in pregnancy. Its just your bodies way of preparing for birth. Sometimes you can be dilated from very early on and still go to 40 weeks. I did that with my second pregnancy. Good luck and hope your baby comes soon.
It could be a while . And it could be anytime soon. You just never know. But good luck to you I'm 39+5 and not dilated or effaced any ! Hope your Lo comes soon.