I completely understand! Im 21wks too! I use to be a gym addict and its hard watching the scale increase. What helps me is knowing that im almost there & a healthy bby will soon be here! Then i can sneak off to the gym when my love gets home! Lol, itll all be worth it! You will get that body back! If you put wrk in, trust me. Been there! Done that!
I have a few maternity clothes but they're still too big. I just ordered some more online that were for your 2nd trimester instead of having the huge ones that will fit me like my last month only lol
Try some maternity clothes. They're way more stylish than they were a few years ago.