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obsessive ex gf.. sorry have to rant
Soo my bf/fiancé has an ex that is obsessed with him, when he broke up with her she could come cry outside his door and follow him around in the car and we have been together for almost 2 years after the first year she finally got the hint that he loves me and there is no going back, the ***** never had a bf till like 5 months ago she got one that is like my fiancé twin literally. . I know what a freak.. well anyway they broke up about two months ago and she is pregnant thing is she Is ******* saying my fiancé is the father. I honestly don't know who to do I'm so mad, aggravated, hurt. I know she is obsessed but I just don't know :'( !! I want to ******* kill the *****!!!
Yes i just got off the phone with my godmother and she said to just smile and act like whatever and if she keeps bothering to not even pay attention just say okay time will tell and keep on being happy with my fiance. He loves me and treats me like a princess and he is in my bed every night, but he does take breaks at work and idk what he can be doing at that time on the days that im in college and doesnt come home to me because im obviously not there. So its like yeah i dont see why he would do it or with what time but at the same time its like ugh idk. its driving me nuts but i guess i just have to suck it up and keep smiling till we find out if the fat bit*h is even pregnant or if its even his.
Spurlock13...I agree! Be the bigger person, if you smile and show that she doesn't bother you, that's going to irk her even more...let the ex and the in laws be miserable and you be happy. That's their problem, not yours. Some people are just aren't capable of true happiness and you should feel sorry for them
I know the feeling just Monday I tried have a "family" meeting my fiance both my son and his daughter this ex and his mother and myself and his mom ignored me and kept taking my fiance's daughter away from me and she pushed my 2 year old away from he the whole time and then she tells my fiance he is a bad dad.. Like seriously we are trying to get along for the kids and you go and do that.. And she wonders why my fiance told her she won't know the baby we are having some people just don't deserve to be involved.. If I were you I would just act happy and kill the with kindness that a what I'm doing
Thank you I am trying to be strong :) but at the same time im just so emotional and it freaking hurts that his mom always brings his ex over to his house while i am there and treats me like crap but her like a princess. Its so frustrating.
My fiance's ex girlfriend goes to his mothers house and his mother and his ex talk crap about me and my fiance I mean she does have his daughter but the bad part is he was away for 3 years and he decided to move back to see his brother and sister and him mom and his ex went and really planned out how to make sure that his ex got pregnant (his mother told me about how they planned it) his mother took him out and got him drunk of his a** and then told his ex to go to his room and be ready because she was being him home and then 1 week later his ex told him she was pregnant he tried to step up and stay with her for the baby but she cheated so he broke it off with her.. At the time I was literally giving birth to my first son (not his biological son) he and I got in touch a month after I had my son and we started dating right before my son turned 2 months old his ex is always at his moms and constantly asking about him and for the past 2 years her and his mother have been trying to break us up bit we are still going strong n now we will be having ur baby any day now.. So just stay strong and keep your head up co grants on the baby
Yeah so also my mother in law is more like a monster in law and they are both against me so they might just have it all set up. but still. i want to believe him but idk. I just want to sit and cry my eye balls out all day.
My husbands ex was so out there she got with his best friend and she is also friends with my mother in law so this woman showed up at my wedding o.o she was asked to leavei told my mother in law if she shows up at my baby shower i will be very mad yay for drama lol
he said that the kid is not his and that i shouldnt stress over it he is gladly gunna get the DNA test done whenever the kid is born if she even is pregnant and that he cant believe that i easily get taken away about what this "*****" has to say when we both know how obsessive she is. But the if thoughts are just killing me :'(
He might just be freaked it about the baby. Me and my bf were all over each other and had awesome constant sex before I got pregnant. Now, not so much. I'm just over 5 months and we've had sex like 4 times because he is weird about my belly says it feels different. I wouldn't worry about the intimacy slowing down, I hear from a lot of girls than guys get weird and it slows down.
Gosh why are there crazy girls out there!? Good to know I'm not the only one that kinda goes through this. I did feel bad for her at some point but now she just stressing me out and now making me doubt being that our sex life with my fiancé has gone down hill. Makes me think what if that is his kid andhe has been ******* her and tthat's why he barely touches me :'(
My bf ex is crazy to, she keeps tabs on him by randomly going to his mom's and aunts houses trying to get information on what he's been up to. He doesn't have as fb but she keeps in touch with his cousins through her fb. I guess his cousin out of state told her about our baby and she's freaking out blowing up his phone with texts. She likes to tell him how happy her new life is and he has to say he's not happy or she goes more nutso...They've been broken up for 3 years and she will not let him go even though she's had a new bf for over a year. I'm not angry or upset... I feel bad for her, she must be pretty crazy and miserable to act like this. I'm more grateful every day that I'm happy and starting a family. I'm sorry you have to deal with crazy people, good luck and I hope things simmer down :-)
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