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need to vent.

I picked a sorry excuse for a baby father. And sadly im pregnant with his second child and im only 18. I love my children but I feel like I f'd up. I ask him to bring me wipes for his daughter and he catches an attitude. Im 18 i have no business having two damn kids. I known im going to be doing this alone because he complains whenever I ask him for anything for his daughter. Innate that soo much. I cry everyday because nnd in know I f'd and I can't go back and fix it.
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I feel the exact same.. my husband is an idiot! And he barely started being Like that.. :/ he got fired from his job.. started smoking pot with friends.. RARELY even sleeps at home because "he's making money" ..he goes and steals stuff and sales it just to put things into his truck.. I'm 7 months pregnant and have not a single diaper for our baby.. I cry every single day hoping he changes but doesn't..I really just want to give up :// I know I can do better with the career I'm going for..its just hard :(
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I was 18 when I had my second daughter, and there father was pretty much the excat same and honestly when I left him it was the best thing ever yeah it was scary and hard but my two kids were the best thing he ever did until after 8 months of us being broken up he realized what he was missing and what he lost out on and his two beautiful kids, now we have been back together for awhile and expecting are third daughter and honestly its like I am with a whole new man he has changed so much maybe you guys need to be apart to see what you have, some people see it and some don't I hope he dose so you get your family and some help, good luck hunny!
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Keep your head up, your children are blessings to you and trust me God wouldn't have blessed you with them if he thought you couldn't handle it. You are gonna be fine, if he acts immature you just be the best mom you can be. All else will fall into place.
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Thank him for blessing you w 2 beautiful kids and then try to move on. The fact that u went back to school shows u have a good head on your shoulders.  Try to stay positive
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I always put them first. If it wasn't for my daughter I wouldn't have went to college.  But thank you soo much.
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hey hun, I was 18 with 2 beautiful daughters and their father was an immature idiot. I tried to hang on to a relationship that wasn't there.
In the end I left and yes it was hard but I really believe my daughters thrived on my happiness. I am now 35 my daughters are 17 and 18 I'm 9 weeks 4 days pregnant with a wonderful partner. I truly believe things happen for a reason.  stay strong and put you and the kids first x
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