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My parents are not happy!

Just told my mam & dad im 3 months pregnant im 25 as this is my second baby iv a 2 year girl who they adore, but they told me iv 1 month to get out and get my own place im with my partner 7 years we both work and we're very happy were actually looking at houses & apartments before they even mentioned it and we cant wait to get our own place!

What upset me the most was not once have they asked how I got on in the hospital for my first scan I think there ashamed of me I feel like a 12 year old lil girl who's pregnant! I'm so upset and cant stop crying I feel embarrassed is it so wrong for me to be pregnant for the second time in such short space of my first baby???
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Agreed they're not bugged about the timing of your kids, 2 years is average!  They are miffed you're not on your own fully yet. Swallow up your pride, get your own place and I'm sure they'll be just as excited about your new blessing.  
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This is probably not very much about the spacing between your children,  but the fact that you don't have your own place yet.  

My guess is,  once you're out on your own and totally self-supporting they won't worry about you so much.
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Thanks yeah there's only 2 years between me & my brother so I don't get why there so angry :( just told me il have my hands full but that's my business thanks I really hope we get a place soon as it's so hard not talking to them when I'm the only girl in the family I was real close to my mam.
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They will get over it. Just stay positive about it as long as you are happy and excited. My parent were the same way and I'm married.
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Wow that's not very understanding! Of course it's not wrong! There is only 14 months between me and my brother. I would definitely move out if I were you.
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