nervous nervous nervous!!!!

[jjlynn1223]

So this is my 2nd pregnancy but im very very nervous but it's mostly because how my labor went the 1st time..specially when I got to the hospital & the nurse checked if it was liquid from the water breaking she hurt me so badly only put a drop of lube in the little thing they use for pap smear (I forgot what it's called) it was steal so im with my contractions & she just put it all fast :( it was horrible...do any of you ladies know how to relax during procedures like that?! I really don't want to go through the same pain again..thats if my water breaks itself again

[jjlynn1223]

Thank you girls :) ill keep that in mind

[zombie_mommy]

This sounds crazy but i think of ways the Dr our nurse could start a conversation to make it less awkward lol i don't say anything out loud but it helps kind of like when you are getting your eyebrows done and they talk to you about random stuff

[PonsGirl]

I just normally close my eyes and take deep breathes and count to 10 in my head. Or I play on my phone or talk to my husband while they are down there to distract me.