Anyone Going Through It Too?!

[Temz21]

I'm 15 weeks pregnant with my first child. But the father of the child does not speak to me since I told him I got pregnant; at first he did say he'll support me but now it's like I don't exist! (The guy was someone i trusted, we had dated 2 years ago & were getting back on track.) I just wanted to know is there anyone that's been through this? How did you get through it? Or anyone in the same situation. Because as a woman for a man to get you pregnant & just leave, that really hurts. You feel alone, like nobody understands and somewhat worthless.

[Temz21]

Omgsh some guys are just pathetic to be honest, and it's sad because majority behave like this after getting s girl preggo. But like you said his loss someone else's gain. Finding a man is not hard but through all this has made me stronger & it has changed my mind set not just any guy can come and take me for a mug cos ive got wiser. But good luck your so close to meeting your bundle of joy and I wish you safe delivery x

[theawesomejuju]

I'm in your exact situation I mean EXACT... and I've just learned to not give a fudge lol I'm so happy and I'm 34 weeks and cant wait to meet my princess his loss someone else's gain... congrats he's not a man... A real man doesn't walk away mine texts me every 8 weeks to ask how the baby is doing after begging me to abort her. I'm glad I didn't. .. now he asked me if I was giving her his last name I said he'll no he hasn't been there meanly physically or emotional y this whole pregnancy and damn sure doesn't deserve his last name.. and we will never be together nor married so she will deff have my last name he asked if I wanted him at her birth I said no that's the easy part wow u had sex got me pregnant left got a new girl forgot about me but wanna pop up when all the hard work is done.. pathetic enjoy your pregnancy without the loser!

[Temz21]

Hey Ladies I totally forgot I posted this. But I'm glad I'm not alone not that I'm happy we're going through this but it just goes to show we are strong. I'm now 20 weeks pregnant have my anomaly scan on friday and im hoping to find out the sex of this baby I've fallen in love with. The father of my baby still hasn't got in contact but I'm doing great and sorting things out for the arrival of my baby I can't wait till he/she gets here. But continue to be strong ladies xoxo

[RiahMill]

Yes i been through that. Place your mind in something else then him. Do something that makes you happy. Read books about the baby shop for the baby.  Sing dance watch a movie.  Do anything to not think about the issue at hand.  I worked my whole pregnancy to keep my mind off my son's father telling me to have an abortion those words hurt me to the core.  But honey payback is the best. When he has to look at me enjoy my handsome son taking pics and taking his first step and when i do finally let him see him he dont even wanna stay with him. His family back him up as well but i will never abort any baby that i was grown enough to make. My son looks just like his father.  But his smile i see everyday makes me so proud of myself that i didnt let that man bring me down to have an abortion. Its help out here if you need it. Abortion is not the answer. Your babies smile will prove that at the end when your bundle of joy is laying their smiling back at you every morning. God bless.

[meli124]

hey girl well i kno exactly what you going thru my baby daddy didn't want me to have this baby at all im 16 weeks now and i made my own decision of keeping it iam a mother of two boys and a girl this would be my fourth baby but this would be his second his first is my lil boy who's 17 months we had a huge fight and i kicked him out of my crib hes staying with his parents look we didn't do it alone but we can do it alone ok so don't worry so much because at the end of the day when he sees that baby he will be back and begging you for forgiveness ok so enjoy your pregnancy because stressing is just going to hurt your and yourself take care hope i helped in some way :-)

[minna1996]

Yup. My childs father was my fiance when i got pregnant. For about a week he was excited but then told me i NEEDED to abort because he hates kids and never wanted children. This was all when i was 5 weeks, i am now almost 18 weeks and have not heard from him in a long time. He occasionally has friends text me and tell me im stupid i should have aborted and i will be a bad mom. Its hard.

[BrandNewMommy2Be]

Oh, and I'm 30 weeks now also..

[BrandNewMommy2Be]

I am in basically the same situation now.. we were doing perfect like two weeks ago, til one day he just decided I no longer existed. He ignored me til I finally gave tf up. And I jus found out tonight hes dating some other girl now.. ha I'm extremely pissed that he has so little respect to just throw me aside like I'm nothing.. and of course hurt because it makes me feel so small :/ buut I'm just trying to keep my head up and tell myself that he's not worth it. So good luck to you too, girl!

[Decembers_Gift]

I promise you I'm know the same predicament. We pretty much only talk if I text him then sometimes we don't. I try to cover it up and lie about how much it hurts and I started believing myself

[brenichelle]

I'm sorry you're having to go through that:( but honestly if he's not man enough to take care of the mother of his child along with his child, he doesn't deserve to be a father. You can do this without him (: I know it's hard, but its probably whats best. And he may come running back you never know. Keep your head up (:♡