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2022859 tn?1342283129

just venting

well today i had an ultra aound with the dr that was on call. he was looking for my low fluid and how the baby was small for how far allong i am... and i finally got to find out the gender.... ITS A GIRL(: her name will be Skylar Rae... and he told me that the radiologist technition was wrong that i had plenty of fluid and the baby was the right size... my fiancee really didnt seem so happy he just had this blank stare on his face... kinda like he was dissapointed... because he was hoping for a boy... but the thing is he already has a boy from a previous relationship... i just dont know.... it seems like to me that he is mad and dissapointed at me because i didnt make the baby the gender that he wanted it to be... and when i asked him about it he just said that hes happy but tired, sorry but im happy and tired too but i show emotion and not like im mad ya know... i just really dont know what to think....
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1712422 tn?1443337501
The man decides the gender, we already carry an X chromosome and if a males X chromosome meets our X then it is a girl..if their Y chromosome meets our X chromosome then it takes over and is a boy…

Don't worry, my bf was the SAME way, we have a 4 year old girl and he really wanted a boy this time but it grew on him a little later on…he was hoping at my last ultrasound which was on Tuesday that a penis would magically appear, well that didn't happen lol…it is definitely a little girl
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2141290 tn?1349033141
he decides the gender! just tell him that.. that lil girl will have him wrapped around her little finger just you wait and see. everything will change once that baby is in his arms
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