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how to deal with a breakup with babydaddy ; & -12 weeks pregnant ?
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You got to be happy with or without him do what's best for you and the baby stress isn't good especially at the weeks you are that's bad.. be strong I promise you can do it when they see that you're ohk without them is when they want to be there love YOURSELF more than him!
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ya really helpd me realize whats best , having my baby are arguing dont make sense . thanks girls
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I found out I was already 9weeks pregnant a month after we broke up for good. I'm now 28 weeks and he's excited and been involved as much as he can. But we are not together. Though I know a baby shouldn't be the reason to force a romantic relationship, it did make me sad he had not intention of getting back together. He acts nice to me and all but still doesn't look like we'll be together but for now what's important is that he willbe iinvolved and be a good dad.
Just try to think of what's best for the baby. And you don't want wanna be pregnant, with a kid AND handling an insecure, unstable relationship.
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Love you even more for it **
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I understand that completely. My baby daddy wants nothing to do with me or the child. He won't even be on the birth certificate. You'll find someone who will love you and your baby like its his own. It might take a while to get over him. Sometimes what we want the most isn't what's best for us. No one ever wants to be a single mom, but it happens. Being a single mom will make you stronger and your baby will live you even more for it
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He's not worth it at all. Everything happens for a reason and probably that was the best thing to happend. And don't be scare to be a single mom t he responded alot of single mom's doign great for there kids :) try to do your best for your baby and you. Good luck !:)
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its hard when all I want is him & hes talking to all these females ; it hurts . I never wanted to be a single mom
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I had to deal with a baby daddy break up too. I was around 8 weeks. I'm 35 weeks now. It will be okay. Everything happens for a reason. Just look forward to holding your little baby. That helps a lot. Be strong, for you and baby. You got this!  
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I had to deal with a baby daddy break up too. I was around 8 weeks. I'm 35 weeks now. It will be okay. Everything happens for a reason. Just look forward to holding your little baby. That helps a lot. Be strong, for you and baby. You got this!  
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