when I started dating my bf I new he was involved with somebody else not real thing he was just seeing her once in a while , well when we were like 2 months together she send him a text saying she was 12 weeks prego with his baby , she never proved pregnancy , never sent him doctors notes that he asked for .. anyways , she than claimed she had the baby premature the baby has been in he nicu as far as I can remember but no real facts about this child ever exist , I always told him to ask for a dna , that doesn' mean he is not a real man for doing that but just don't wanna be fooled , but he says he knows he was sleeping with her and he is sure this is his child bla bla bla , anyways what pisses me off is that he calls her and text her when ever im not with him and that gets me really frustrated , I told him a bunch o f***** times not to do this behind my back , if its only about the baby he should have no problem communicating in front off me , all im asking for is some type of respect and honesty , what the hell , im wrong for asking that ?? sorry for the long post