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Another womans 's baby !!

when I started dating my bf I new he was involved with somebody else not real thing he was just seeing her once in a while , well when we were like 2 months together she send him a text saying she was 12 weeks prego with his baby , she never proved pregnancy , never sent him doctors notes that he asked for .. anyways , she than claimed she had the baby premature the baby has been in he nicu as far as I can remember but no real facts about this child ever exist , I always told him to ask for a dna , that doesn' mean he is not a real man for doing that but just don't wanna be fooled , but he says he knows he was sleeping with her and he is sure this is his child bla bla bla , anyways what pisses me off is that he calls her and text her when ever im not with him and that gets me really frustrated , I told him a bunch o f***** times not to do this behind my back , if its only about the baby he should have no problem communicating in front off me , all im asking for is some type of respect and honesty , what the hell , im wrong for asking that ?? sorry for the long post
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4332997 tn?1358728615
Well this situation ***** but in the beginning u said u knew he was seeing somebody else while u were dating.....it looks like he doesn't have respect for u or ever did!!!!! I would have a serious talk with him about everything especially with u being pregnant now!!!!! And he needs a DNA test because I was in that situation before with my bf where another girl was pinning a baby on him.....come to find out they never slept together and it wasn't his baby!!!!! Good luck
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4928337 tn?1362751166
Wow. Sorry hunny. I'm so glad I don't have this problem. I would not have the patience. Seriously I would more than likely kill another woman whom was a pain in the ***! I don't think kids should be kept from there dads! Exp if they want to see theor children. But that should be an open arrangement no secrets or bs. And that shiz better be verified by DNA lovie.
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3744707 tn?1402187570
What if baby mommy just tryin to tie him down. Not being selfish but they should get a dna test before anythin. Because its going to lead to child support. My huby has another baby momma but she dosent even let him see her which makes things suspicious but shes milking him down a **** load half wat he makes every month it suckss especially cuz we cant even see his little girl
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ive only seem pictures of her that's is it , trust me is not that I don't say it to him how I feel , but I guess he doesn't get it !!
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4850939 tn?1370543309
Seems a little fishy to me I would definitely bring it up that ur not ok with it and that it needs to stop do u know the other girl?
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And your pregnant now too?  He better start makin sure he's not pissing you off or hell be paying two mommas child support!
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4503521 tn?1400858886
No that's beyond disrespectful I would read his a$$ real good. If you ain't got nothing to hide why is he doing it behind ye back. Not acceptable he needs to get it together
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