QUICK! miscarried twins :(

[mommyofalibra]

Not me, but my friend just lost her twin boys 3 days apart. I wanna be there for her so bad. I'm gonna call her but unsure what to say. Any advice?

[chicanomom08]

even if she is religous...do not by any means tell her anything like " god must have had plans for your babies " or " god has a reason for everything " hearing that after i lost one twin of mine at 30 weeks gestation made me hate god for a long time and also just ticked me off. Just be there, let her talk/cry/scream whatever she feels like doing. Just to have a good friend to be there for me was the best thing i could ask for.

[Brooklynnbby]

Sorry*

[Brooklynnbby]

Don't say array you have to go through this not a good idea from experience

[janee24]

Just say I love you im sorry that you have to go through this.if you need someone to talk to I am here for you

[mommyofalibra]

Yes that's what's delaying me of calling. I definitely wouldn't tell her "at least you can try again" or "i understand" because i don't. This is my first pregnancy as well as it was hers. I'll call her in a few and let her vent or cry or whatever. Thanks ladies. Pray for her

[abiandgabi_mom]

I agree with both other comments, there are no words you should just be there with a sympathetic ear and lots of love & prayers for your friend:-)

[rebeccaann11]

give her a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen with and also offer to take her out To help her try to clear head.
this is a very sad and hard time for your friend

[rebeccaann11]

do not tell her well at least you could try again. Yes you can. you can try again. There will not help her in any way shape or form now

[bubbles_baby]

I'm here for u... That would be it. No I understand or anything like that. Just say I'm here for u and allow her to talk