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im sad of course

I cant do nothing but sit at home while everyone including my bf gets to go out and do what ever they want party and hangout while i just sit here and do not fare at all i have no friends at all no one to talk too and even aftee the bany xomes im still foinf to be in the house but i always feel pregnant alone rhe men are free to do what ever they want while we sit around the house with this huge stomach smh...cant do doodoo
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I feel the same way sometimes actually today I was looking at the stories on snapchat & everyones out having a good time hello its friday right and im stuck at home. But its ok cause I always just think when my peanut arrives I know im going to be the happiest person on earth & I wont even be worried about going out anymore lol. I still go out just can't do everything I used to do. Cant have as much fun. Its ok though.
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Aww atleast we're all feeling better letting our feelings out.. We can all relate. Huggs to you ladies
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What i dont understand why you let yourselves feel miserable? If your partner wants to go out why cant you? What or who is stopping you? If your partner cares he will stay with you or ask you to go with him, if he doesn't then you ladies need to have a good talk with him, i was 40wks 10 days and i went out to a bar with my husband to watch a fight..i dont mean to be rude, but if you dont like it make them stop, unless you have some sort of agreement saying he gets to go out now and daddy stays home every weekend with the baby for 9 months while mommy gets to have fun, you are feeling sad because you are not putting your foot down, you dont need this kind of stress right now, you need support from your partner more than anyone,  good luck girls
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7552771 tn?1469929649
Why don't you go out with your bf? Or ask him to stay with you. There's no reason you can't still go out at all.
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I thought I was the only one who felt like this. & it's even worst sometimes because I can only communicate with my child's father through letters & phone calls :(. But I'm pretty sure these emotions won't last forever
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Yeah they will never know
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Guys don't understand. Like you said if only they knew lol. Maybe talk to him about how you're feeling ?
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Thats how i feel some times and since we r so emotional i cry about it even when i dont want to if only they knew how it felt.to be pregnant
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My husband won't go out anymore cause I can't. He stays home and goes down stairs on the computer :)
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13167 tn?1327194124
Find nice  friends who are pregnant.  
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:'/
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Yup I'm with u too. My husband want to go out now and I was just fussing I never get to do anything it ***** lol
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Yea me too, I'm trying to reach out to my old friends & have fun before I can't & the bf doesn't really talk to me anymore, he seems bored around me & gets annoyed by me, like a while ago I called him at work to ask him something & we started talking but he wasn't really talking which I understand cause he was at work & then he jus got frustrated & started being rude to me like trying to get off the phone & then after we hung up he texted me & told me I made him mess up at work & I've been wanting to cry ever since but I'm waiting to get off work, I feel alone sometimes too..It ***** cause we become more sensitive :/
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10630314 tn?1416009207
Look on the bright side girls yous will have your very own bundle of joy that will become your new best friend and there's always someone on here going through the same thing as u r to Talk too :)
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7792797 tn?1413503184
I feel ur pain. I cry sometimes becuz how lonely I am. I don't have friends or fam either.  36 wks... 23 more to go and even then with c section and a newborn ill be stuck home
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