Congrats welcome to the team..:)) I'm also having a baby boy.. To ne honest boys and girls are raised different. At the end of the day ur going to have boys do certain things u won't let ur girls do... When boys and girls hit a certain age its a lot of peer pressure in this cruel world.. but if u raise ur boy/ girl right by talking about peer pressure and keep them very busy(sports/ cheerleader) they will be fine..
Having one of each... I don't think u can really compare them at a young age. I will say tho now that my son is 3 and my daughter is 5 im so glad im having another boy. My 3 yr old, almost 4, is very hyper, which at times is stressful but its tolerable... my daughter on the other hand who is 5 almost 6 and in school ia very mouthy. Im the type where I don't like being disrespected, lied to or for someone to get smart with me... those are really bad pet peeves of mine. And when my daughter starts I wanna beat her!! But of course I don't. Its alot easier to calm a child down than to control their mouth and attitude. I love both of ny children equally and wouldn't trade either of them for the world... but I would rather deal with a hyper child than a mouthy one lol