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so im 20 and gonna be a ftm i am 25 weeks :) i have no friends that talk to me since i got pregnant so stuck in home all the time. my boyfriend is not really supportive he always gap his friends down and now he has been offered a full time job which i am thrilled about but i really dont think i can trust him to work in a busy food diner  during summer months as when we first got together he  played away a few times . i dont want so talk to him about it as he will say i am being selfish. i just dont no what to do :(
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4456535 tn?1355894638
I think that goes for everyone im a ftm and 18 and my friends are just all blah to the side they txt me once in a while but its for something they want so i just dont reply. I get that alone feeling too so i try to keep myself busy. You can msg any time
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4270856 tn?1355798754
Don't worry! I'm lonely as heck too all my friends left me too but you'll make new ones if you ever need someone to talk to you can message me
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I'm 21 and 28+1 weeks and all my friends bailed too, I only have 2 friends but one lives an hour and a half away and has her own baby and the other one lives down the road from me hut is always working or out with someone else... I have my hubby (bf but I call him my hubby) but that's about it ... Very hard
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i'm 19yo and 19wks and have no friends left now either. it ***** but obviously theyre not worth it if they can't stick by you in times like this..
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You can inbox me too :) I'm 20 and 36 weeks with my little boy
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its amazing the support that is shown on this forum thank you ladies for your replies. it seems that people think that when youpregnant you cant go out am enjoy yourself, i got upset earlier and boyfriend noticed so i talked to him about it and he reassured me he would not hurt me and he is going to help me keep in touch with my old friend so i wont be alone while he works . which is a great relief that he is finally stepping up to the mark and adjmg responsible xxx
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Me too. Similar situation, little differrent but the lonliness is terrible and I have a feelibg it will only get worse here as the relationship dissolves. Problem then is custody agreements will keep me stuck in thus state. Anyone else?? Let's talk please!
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Im 25 and this is our 5th baby. My hubby works 12hour days and we literally don't have any "friends". Our lives revolve around our family and ita honestly so much easier this way. Your friends obviously weren't your friends if they don't talk to you just because your now pregnant. As for your bf not being supportive...you can't live in the past. Trust me it will not het you anywhere. You have to trust him at some point. Talk to him about how you feel. I've been exactly where you are and have been through A LOT with my husband. But now almost 11years later all of those hardships were stepping stones. You will be ok. Keep your head up and don't let other people get to you.
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Same here ladies i moved to next town over not to far but me and my boyfriend havent been gettin along. I dont kno how long we will last.   :( and i only have one good friend who works alot. So im lonely too :(
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That ***** same here. Im stuck home no friend talks to. Mee. U can inbox me wen ever
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4838207 tn?1363917730
Aww why did your "friends" stop talking to you? One of my so called friends stopped talking to me after I told her I'm pregnant. But if you feel alone you can always inbox me I'm 20 and a ftm also.
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