Question ?????

[Ariel_21]

Me and my baby's father are not together and we are on on terms but not to where il tell him things so I won't txt him unless he txt me. Or il txt him when I go to the doc. And let him know how his son doing. But me and his mom are not on good terms because of him and how our relationship was it made her dislike me but it was all his fault and how he made it seem like it everything was all my fault if we got in a argument or something so she said she didn't want nothing to do with me just the baby when he's born. But I dont like the fact that we don't talk or I can't go to her for things and I really want her to be apart of her grand child's life
So my question is how can I go about talking to her how should I start it off? She's a strong minded person and if I say the wrong thing she would stop talking.

[Ariel_21]

So I let her know and talk to her and told her I would like to come out there for thanksgiving so they can meet him and etc. and il let her know anything about him and when I go to labor she said okay that's fine and thank you. Hey that's better then nothing

[Ariel_21]

Lol that's funny.

[Tay9662]

Yea I told him ill start telling my dad everytime we fight and see how he likes it.. lol he stopped that **** cause my dad started calling him

[Ariel_21]

Yea it's crazy like your just making your mom dis like me more not know what extra things your saying

[Tay9662]

My fiance does it too if I get mad at him he goes and pouts to his mama which makes me even more mad cause its not her buisness

[Ariel_21]

True that too but her son makes it her business and its annoying like stop going to your mom all the time you have a relationship problem. So il txt her now and see what she says :/

[Ariel_21]

True and all the hormones mite make me cry. And I somewhat have a feeling she mite say no my son will. But I don't want her to have to hear anything about the baby from her son because her son mite not know everything since we not together you know.

[myost8315]

You be the bigger person and offer for her to be in, not just yours, but the babies life. The baby coneswith mother whether she likes you or not. If she wants her grand baby in her life then she's going to have to ignore the issues you and her son have. After all.. Yours and his issues aren't her business

[Tay9662]

Girl idk.. me and my mil don't get along so I really don't care to "have her involved" she didn't want us to have our daughter and I'm 37 weeks and she still has a problem. I would call her and simply ask if she would like you to call when you go into labor,but if she's rude and says no my son will idk what to tell you I'm kinda blunt and a little rude when people are mean to me so..