Vent.. Not to happy

[elizabethhhkitty]

I feel just really distant from everyone. I got pregnant and im very young but all my friends dumped me and it really just hurts my feelings i feel really bad about my life because i literally only have like three friends. I am just wondering if you think it'll get better in college and i will make some friends? I love my daughter to the end of the earth but i also need some people to hang around and stuff

[ladii_keya]

All the people that stopped coming around we're never real friends to begin with & yu would have seen it thru one situation or another , be glad yu got rid if the fake friends now so they won't be a bother in yur life as a mother .. I'm 19 & just had my daughter 15 days ago but I went thru the same thing .. I appreciate my 3 real friends that stuck thru it with me tho & I promise once baby comes , all the ones who left wont cross yur mind again .. Feel free to message me if yu need a friend :)

[elizabethhhkitty]

It really helps to know im not the only one. Its a pretty bad feeling but this forum thing helps my mood alot haha. I hope you ladies feel better too

[OorahMommy]

Honestly when the baby comes that least of your worries will be friends. You won't even care or have time for them and you will make new mommy friends that you have things in common with. Don't feel so bad all that matters now is your baby

[Toriiee]

i agree yur not the only one... im 18, ill be 19 3 weeks before my daughters due but i feel like i have no one... i keep my mom from doing things alot cause i dnt wanna be home nd alone nd i go everywhere she goes... my daughters dad is mostly to busy fur me, nd i only talk to a few people now... my bestie but i dnt see her alot cuz she works nd takes care of her two kids nd i understand that, nd my buddie but i dnt ever do anything or hang out with him cuz hes a million miles away.... nd only a few other girls rarely i talk to them.. nd wen i do its usually juss a few words things... the person i thought would actually stay cuz she was there in the beginnig i havent talked to her furever.... since then beginning of november... bout 2 months ago.. its pretty sad cuz i did so much fur this girl nd now she cnt even take the time to even do something with me because all she wants to do is drink, smoke, nd party nd now shes all stuck on her girlfriend.. which her girlfriend i no as well... i knew her fur like almoss 4 years now.. nd them two juss recently met.. idk it *****.. trust me i no... but if yu need someone to talk to yu can message me at any time :)

[Lissaleigh]

I feel the same way. I'm 24 though and engaged and still feel like the most alone person in the world. No one understands and everyone that was in my life didnt want to take the time to understand. I hope you feel better I just wanted to let you know you aren't the only one who feels that way.

[emmaftm]

Is there no mother and baby group u can go to in ur area to meet people in the same situation as u? Its sad that when u get pregnant friends no longer come around... it was the same when my friend got pregnant, only i felt left out cos she had all her mummy friends and i didnt fit in.... now im pregnant and fit in they are all getting back to workcos their kids starting school lol