If your not comfortable with him being around, there's nothing wrong about that.
Dang.. idk i always see both sides. Your child can be his second chance at trying to be a good father. If he wants to be there and just for positivity why not? I gave my father a second chance he fisappeared wheni was two. When i found him at twenty i feel like it was such a benefit. Maybe you have a good reason for your resentment but y keep that negativity there :/??
I've given him many chances and he has failed every time!
He lies about his past relationship to New gf and tells them that his children got taken away....( cry me a river you gave us up) he's just not a good man. I even tried having my husband meet him and my sperm doner talked down to him!
My father was a really bad father, 4 weeks ago he took his own life and I found him..I'm 33 weeks, he left me a note explaining about his severe health problems and depression and he apologised for not being a good father. You don't have to have him in your babies life but just think about it and maybe give him a chance...its amazing how much you miss someone when they're no longer here x
I understand where you are coming from. Honestly sometimes people deserve a chance to show that they can change. But it's up to you.
I would stay away from that man but that's MY opinion
I also can see both sides. In the end it is your decision, if you don't feel comfortable with him there then there's nothing wrong with that. But I also see his side and he probably just realized he wasn't there for his kids but wants to be for his grand kids.
I'm having the SAME exact thing going on!