Advice pretty please!

[Leximama93]

So some of you know I had to frantically leave my house at two a few days ago because my boyfriend came home drunk and things got out of hand..
We haven't talked at all since then and whether throngs work or not I would like to talk things over. When does it become weird that we aren't talking? A few days? A week? I feel like he needs to make the first move because he screwed up huge.

[Leximama93]

Thank you so much ladies:)

[GordonBaby]

I read your post of what happened And you said yourself that it was the last straw. I would save your money...talk about.staying at your.parents and go get your stuff. Even the baby stuff bought 50/50. He should hAve thought about not being able to sustain an.apartment before he went out got **** faced and then pinned you at the car and then demanded your house key from his.pregnant girlfriend. AND he hasn't contacted you..... your early enough in your pregnancy to be able to establish yourself elsewhere. I really hope you work things out for YOU.

[Leximama93]

Very true..
I've definetly thought about what if it doesn't work out more than I have it working out. I was just gonna offer paying my share of this months rent so I am out my formal two weeks in where I work. Bad idea?

[GordonBaby]

Well what would you do if your talk goes south? What I meAn is always think about planning for if it doesn't go the way you want it to. There are certain things to settle for and then there are things that if you settle for it your on your own if something else negAtive happens. Honestly.... if this was his mess up and he hasn't reached out yet either he is super ashamed or doesn't care as much as he should.

[Leximama93]

He hardly ever drinks and he situation just for escalated but I don't have a few weeks.. I'm at my parents which is 100 miles away and I would need to be back there for work on Thursday and I would have no where else to stay up there and I would like to meet somewhere in the middle first and talk before that

[GordonBaby]

Take all of the time it takes. I don't know the complete story as to what happened but if it was that bad And things won't change or if your not guaranteed it won't happen again I would.consider alternate options.

[mommygg]

I agree with ash and I also agree he should be the first to make a move to atleast show he cares the slightest bit

[Ashdub07]

Give it a couple weeks I think