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not telling anyone im pregnant&& and pregnant with Mirena still in.

Is it right for me not to want to say to friends im pregnant again.? Family knows but I dnt want to tell friends becuase I am afraid of being judged. This will be my 3rd baby. Although im overjoyed n I wanna post pics n tell the whole world im expecting again I dnt want no ones negative vibes on me n this pregnancy.  I also got pregnant with the Mirena still in. I went Friday to grt it pulled out but the dr didnt see anything. He thinks it fell out but until an ultrasound I will know if its stuck somewhere.  Hopefully it fell out. I dnt want nothing to happen to this baby.
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Im almost 11 weeks.  First time mom.  Awesome with kids.  And noo one knows yet.  Im afraod of jugement bcuz i recent lost my job bcuz i had superbad Morning sickness.  So me n my bf gettin a place was put on hold.  I think ima wait till atleast first ultra spund and we have our own place . Good luck
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Im sorry but yall shouldn't care what others think.  Pregnancy is a beautiful thing.  If someone has something negative to say either ignore them or tell them to kiss your a**
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Hopefully it fell out before you conceived. Every story I've read about getting them removed during pregnancy all ended in miscarriage. As for judgment from your friends I wouldn't care. At the end of the day no one has to see about your little ones but you!
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9797462 tn?1410751678
It's your business to tell. You feel uncomfortable telling anyone, then don't. As for you showing, that will come and people will know. If they ask anything besides "are you pregnant?", then just ignore them and say "i prefer not to answer". You don't owe anyone any type of explanation (:
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8628831 tn?1407267564
They dont sound like "friends" if they judge you. Lol like everyone has judgemental thoughts good or bad and just dont say them but if your afraid of being judged then i would find new friends.
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No one of my family knows expect my little sister as they all hate my husband. And for friends well it's great because I don't have any so no one can judge me :)  just my hubby my baby and I. Sometimes it's lonely but those times will be filled up with my babies love :)
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Im a FTM and im keeping my pregnancy a secret so i can have an undisturbed 9mos. Of course time will reveal all anyway though
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9842459 tn?1411688168
I wish some ppl in my family didn't know because they hate my husband and all they have are rude comments
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