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nothing is wrong with being a teen mom

Im 16 and pregnant i know i should have waited a bit longer but it happenes. I went into shell the other day and the lady was giving me the third degree she asked if i was married how old i was and she was giving me the worst faces when i have her the answers no im not married but i am still with the father. Just because i got pregnant doesnt mean i have to marry him. People at my church too they give me some faces i stop going all together because they act as if there holy when there not. My baby is being taken care of im graduating in may and being a CNA in july done being mad just had to let it out
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I would have told that lady to shove the card right were the sun dont shine. How mean. My dad wont let me live with my boyfriend but thats okay because were both young still
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7677085 tn?1395374075
I don't know if I count... I was nineteen when I had my daughter. I had been married for over a year. I think the comments about the wedding were the worst though. I got married a month after I graduated high school to the love of my life. I was raised by a super conservative family that does not believe in sex before marriage and especially not cohabitation outside of marriage!
I kept the secret of being sexually active until after the wedding, but we were planning to get married anyway, we just pushed the date up because I really wanted to live with him and my family just wouldn't approve. Everyone assumed the only reason we would get married so young was because I was knocked up, when in reality I didn't get pregnant for eight months after our wedding. People freaking su.ck.
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7882296 tn?1405391067
I'm 15 and pregnant .. 14 at conception and people are just now starting to notice at school. They're actually happy I thought I would get made fun of.
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7552244 tn?1393364737
Im studying to take it :3 ill be ready for it after my little angel is here and thanks :) I just try to ignore people and their judgemental comments...I had an older lady give me an adoption agency card saying if I want whats best for my little girl to give her a call....I ripped it in half and told her to f off...
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Mumma2bee that sounds great im 35weeks waiting for my baby girl to arrive im not going to prom because i wanna be with my baby. But i got her a graduation dress so she will go with me to my graduation i want her to look up to me i want her to finish school just like me i want her to be proud of me
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Its because you're so young, you're not suppose to be a mother yet that's why people look at you like OMG.
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