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i feel bad and worthless

i feel bad and worthless because im not doing anything but sitting around and being pregant n lazy only when it comes to taking care of things with the baby maybe my bf feels the same way since he told ne to get out n go hustle because he the one working maybe this want last long :(
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yeah bu thats one thing im focused on doing is going back to school add least n getting my ged
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lol but before we even came n got the place i told him i would look n get a job n he says he didnt want ne to work only stay home eat n be healthy n worry bout the baby n things now where here it seem like a diffrent story when he was down n out i used my money n never thought nun of not that im down n out or anything but i am his pregant gf n he made me seem like i was.nun i get food stamps n wic n cash assistance when it cones n take care of everything concerning the baby with appointments n all
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lol well tell him about me!!!(: i got pregnant nd dropped outta school. now my days consist of sleeping until noon, waking up, watching netflix or cable, talking to my dad on IM, uhmmm, finding every excuse to do nothing all day, and then hubby gets home and cooks dinner or takes me out to eat. the only thing i do is the dishes and that's like once a week, IF THAT. haha
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Don't just sit around feeling sorry for yourself. That will only make you depressed & that's not good for you or baby. If you feel you needor should work do it. Men sometimes worry about the financial stuff to much because they feel like it's their job to make sure there is enough to cover everything. That's why he's incouraging you to work too, although he doesn't have the best way of going about it.
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i clean up the lil things that can be cleaned cause we just moved in here n really dont have much n as far as cooking we barely got our stove n things fixed today n havent got any cooking dishes yet so we mostly just right now are eating warm up n its cause he compared me to what other pregant girls are doing with them selves
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personally, i LITERALLY sit at home and do nothing all day lol. but hubby doesn't complain. he'd be working just the same even if i weren't in the picture. sometimes i'll clean up a bit, but not today. i'm over-tired, been up since 5am cuz little one is on the move today so i'm extra talkative, too. so don't mind me lol
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well do you like take care of the house nd stuff? like laundry done, dinner, clean house?
that's like a job right there.
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