over 30 and pregnant

[simplylizzy23]

I have a 13 year old and had a daughter 7 years ago but she passed away after 3 days. Anyways, I am struggling with this pregnancy. Everything is harder. I am 15-4 and have bad back pain, still nauseous and throw up a few times a day despite the RX. I am on high high risk so I see a doctor every week which is a pain because I live in the mountains. I have bad abdomen pain. I have to take Lovenox shots. Is it suppose to be this hard after 30. I just want it to be May already to have my c-section. Does anyone else feel this way? Am I a horrible mom for wanting it to be over !

[lwolfe520]

I know its hard! And no your not alone. I'm here if you ever wanna talk :)

[simplylizzy23]

Thank you! I feel a lot better. My husband is amazing and said it is because you are pregnant but it feels more because I am over 30. You made me feel like I am not alone.

[lwolfe520]

Hi, I am 35, I have an 18 year old. I have fibromyalgia am also high risk. I take narcotic pain meds. Have had severe allergies since I got pregnant. I am 24 weeks. I have been coughing n sneezing this whole pregnancy. In December it got worse and I've had a sore throat, and ear aches. For a whole month. I'm on a lot of over the counter medicines to help my symptoms. Sometimes I want this pregnancy over but sometimes I try to enjoy it because I know this will be my last I didn't plan on it in the first place, its a pleasant surprise. I do think it is a lot harder after 30.