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I'm Done

No more testing for me... Not even if I can help it. I've been spotting for two days now.
I got up to take my hpt this morning and when I finished it was a BFN, and 10 mins later here comes Ms. AF!

I hope for women who want to be pregnant that you get what you want. I guess it's not my time.
I'm a lil put down but, I'll be ok. I just called the fiance' & I heard his voice go down a little. Looks like I'm not the only one sad.


I don't want to get depressed but, it's a sad thing to go through   :\
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338963 tn?1253660822
well im sorry to hear that.I tried for a about three months i thought i couldnt have babies i also  would get really frustrated and sad and stuff. Now i know i can have babies and im going to in oct.... look online to see when your most fertile and try everyone of those days it will work i promise.....Good luck girly, dont be sad your turn will come maybe this month.You know if your sad your little baby inside of you when you are preg will be sad too..You never know some girls still have there period when there preg.
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My AF is annoying me. Theres no spotting or any sign of blood... There was dark brown blood this morning but, it went away after 12:30.
It's almost 4:00.. wth?

Oohh well. I'll just see what happens this month.
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341551 tn?1266980730
Awww the same thing happened to me Sweetie. I thought there was no way I could NOT be Pregnant. It's just that my Cycle was all messed up from my M/C and AF came way late. Our bodies and minds play silly tricks on us all the time...I'm really sorry you didn't get your BFP this month. But hey, the days are flying and pretty soon you'll be Ovulating again! Thats the best part, you miss 1 month, you got plenty left to try. I wish you tons of luck and give you loads of baby dust! XOXO
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it gets frustrating..i'll tell ya that!
I hate when my body is screwy.
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408496 tn?1269603350
Actually yes.  Mine has done that before when it was all brown and very light.  But then again I believe both of our bodies have been acting pretty screwy lately so I don't think I am telling you that it is normal or anything.  
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Maybe I'll try this month....








Have you ladies dealt with AF like mine?
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408496 tn?1269603350
Sorry to hear that... I got a BFN this morning too.  I think my body is crazy too, if I am not pregnant, b/c I am 9 days late for AF.   There is always next month! You are still going to try aren't you? Good Luck~
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Yeah I had the eggy stuff last month, Blahhhhh. lol



My AF is acting weird. When I wiped after going to the bathroom their was dark red blood on the tissue. That was at 12:30 this morning when I took the test.  I just took a bath and when I took the tampon out, it was all brown and didn't cover the entire thing.
There wasn't any blood in the water, or when I wiped. wth?


I hate how my body is wack.
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354373 tn?1299184526
Quick question - What's the difference between a regular thermometer and Basal Body Temp thermometer????
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363110 tn?1340920419
Cindy- I sent you a message also, but I want you to know, DON't just rely on a calculator. Mine said i'd ovulate on Dec 22nd and I ovulated a day or two late!
TMI ALERT!!: I knew by checking CM. I never actually got the eggwhite kind, but it did get thin, slippery, and watery. then DH decides to jump me w/out P/O or using a condom(2-3 days before O date, just when it had gotten thin&slippery)... and now here we are!

Learn to temp too! just get a basic basal thermometer, measure your base temps from the day you get off AF to when ever it rises. (It may dip slightly when you O', then go right back up again the next day.) My normal temps were 97.0 or 97.2 farenheit before they rose to indicate O' then they were about 97.5-97.9 from then on. I thought they dipped indicating my period, it turns out I took my temp too early (like 2 hrs. before I'd normally wake up) The next day I got a BFP.

I'm telling you, it works, and it's not like in the movies where you see a girl screaming "its time! my temp went up!" you'll have that whole day, and if you know that O is coming by CM (around your O date, a few days before it'll change from lotiony to thinner... then thinner/slippery, then Egg white where it'll actually stretch a little) then you BD a day or two before O'date then you can get PG easy... look at me. lol

Goodluck and keep me updated..
***BABYDUST***     (\ /)
Cindie                      . .
                             1111 (bunny)
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404163 tn?1210421515
awww ive definitely been there through this many times over the past few years..thought i was pregnant,all the symptoms were there but then all the tests were negative..was sick back in sept,went to docs,and they called back and said i was pregnant wasnt even going for pregnancy test,just assumed something was really wrong because i was vomiting so much..sure the symptoms were there,but due to so many letdowns,and my own doc telling me i dont ovulate and would need fertilty meds,i was shocked.i really believe that things happen when they are meant to.i know thats no comfort to you right now,and theres really nothing anything can say to ease your disappointment.i hope everything works out for you.
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Thanks!

I think I'll be ok... I guess it means I should just focus on something else..
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305180 tn?1279716747
I am sorry hon. I went through the same thing you are for 5 months before I finally got pregnant. I dont remember how long you have been trying, but for me I got pregnant once I relaxed and just said, "It will happen when the time is right." I conceived that month (December). Good luck to you. I hope your prayers are answered soon.
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according to whenmybaby.com  I ovulate on my birthday this month..
[22nd]
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354373 tn?1299184526
I'm with you! I think I've used about 5 HPT's over the past few days and all were BFN's as well...Maybe next month!  UGH!  
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355049 tn?1272256388
I am so sorry you didnt get your BFP! You still have next month... Start eating good, taking prenatal vitamins, drink plenty of water. Use the websites I gave you!   re: MyMonthlyCycles.com and keep track of all of your symptoms and before you know it you will "know" when you are ovulating and from what side the egg will come. Dont worry too much ok. Stress is not our friend! Keep us posted for next month!

BABY DUST
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Yeah, just wish it was this time. I was sure I was pregnant. :\
guess not, well thanks ladies
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316994 tn?1259003438
IM SORRY TO HEAR THAT... YOUR TIME WILL COME SOON THOUGH! GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE!
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280369 tn?1316702041
Aww I'm so sorry!! I know it's hard. But when the time is right, it will happen! Keep a positive attitude and before you know it, you will get that BFP. I wish you the best sweetie!
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