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getting so fat:'(

Feel like my boyfriend is losing interest in me because I'm getting fat .. I feel so depressed and I can't even look at myself naked I feel disgusted
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No lol I haven't been pregnant for a year and a half.. He never wants to have sex even from the beginning
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It could just be that maybe he thinks that he will hurt baby I've known guys like that and girls too that don't want to have sex because they are conscience of the life inside them/there partner ask him if it's that and if so try and think of other ways close to yu guys to be intermittent with each it doesn't have to be physical to show that you still want each other hope you feel stronger within yourself soon hun its a hard thing to wrap your head around but I know you're beautiful and amazing and this pregnancy will only make you more so even if you can't see it :) x
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Lol I think I maybe had sex with my boyfriend 20 times since November of 2013 when we started dating.. He doesn't beg and we can go days without it.. can't believe out of those 20 I made a babygirl!
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Iagree w.Crystalann43. Ialways felt fat w.each of my pregnancies & my husband says dont say that. Your beauitful your fine just the way you are. Iwanted you pregnant anyways lol its our baby growing inside of you. && he doesnt mind thee stretch marks he says it should always remind me ihad a littlo person inside of me (: & our sex life when im pregnant is the same he doesnt mind the big tummy @all.
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Ik exactly how you feel , my boyfriend was so loveable and always wanted to have sex but once I got bigger and got stretch marks he hasn't been interested at all! I always ask him why doesn't he like me anymore he always tells me I'm more sexy being pregnant but idk I think he's just not into me anymore
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He hasn't called me beautiful in forever and he used to do it everyday :'( Just feel like he doesn't understand how much a women goes through during pregnancy
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You girls are beautiful!! Don't let anyone/thing make you feel otherwise!!! Sometimes I catch myself thinking I'm getting fat and not as sexy as I was but my fiancée makes me stop. Reminds me that I'm beautiful and actually tells me I'm more beautiful now then ever because I'm holding our little baby. He wants the baby bump, he wants me to grow and doesn't care about the stretch marks or struggle that goes with it. And it's the same for all of you.  Embrace your pregnant self!! We're holding a life inside of us, something men couldn't do! Good luck mamas. Remember your all beautiful:)
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I know how that feels im in the same situation im 6 months know and I mean my bf is sweet and all and gives me what I want but I feel like are intimacy changed and all and I mean I get depressed but buy now I just think of my baby because I dont want to feel sad and all because I know my baby is going to feel the sadness so I just try to look at the positive and hope after I give birth everything gets better . . .
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Im sorry to hear you feel that way. I know exactly how you feel. Pregnancy has changed my body in so many ways with each one. I feel that way too sometimes. As a mommy I sorta learned to like my body.. but im still working on loving it. Keep ypur head up hun every woman is beautiful:))
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