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positive thoughts please

I have recently gave birth to a baby girl December 21 2011, she wwas born with a very serious heart defect. Like her daddy but a lot more complicated. After two weeks in the hospital a big emotional roller coaster and facing options of to chose what was best for our daughter. We choice comfort care for her believing its what was best for her between attempt of surgery with and a less than. 10% cha. nce tshe would have made it through surgery. And options of heart transplant with an average wait of 4months. Our daughter passed away when she was two weeks old. We pray and hope that it will be the hardest thing we have to go through in our life. I got pregnant again in may but sadly had a miscarriage in June. I am now expecting again I am currently 15 weeks and all is going well so far. We will not be able to find out about this babies heart until December 10th. We pray everyday and hope we will not have to go through the pain of any of it again. Because as a mother and a human I can not make it through something like that again. I fear it again everyday but try to find comfort in that God knows how much we can handle we have proved above and beyond our strength. But to go through it again would be too much for anyone. So I am asking for any prays and positive thoughts that our baby be healthy and have a fully developed heart and that we will be able to bring this baby home and love it and provide for. Any prays and positive thoughts are very much appreciated.
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I'm sorry for your loss and you and your family are in my prayers o hope all goes well for you.
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I am praying for your family.  I am so sorry, and no mother should have to go through that.  Just remember she is at peace with her maker, and don't ever forget that you will see her again. I am sure this baby will be A-OKAY :))
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2170635 tn?1357911686
Aww im sorry and good luck im sure ur baby be  verey healthy and happy :)
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Prayers your way;-) Stay strong!!
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Praying also
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Praying for your family
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1287276 tn?1357854419
Wow!! :( reading This brought tears to my eyes :(
You and you baby are in my prayers..
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4147584 tn?1351546606
When prayers go up, blessings come down. Just said a little prayer for you and baby.
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3763041 tn?1354906251
My prayers are with you
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This brought tears to my eyes....keeping you and your family in my prays!!
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Praying for ur baby and I'm so sorry for ur loss I will keep u all iny prays
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