Oh my gosh, this is horrible. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. I too would feel like it was the hospitals fault, they should have been more thorough.
I'm really really sorry this happened to you. But you have to stop blaming yourself. There was nothing you did wrong and thinking about the "what ifs" will only intensify your grief and anguish. Keep your baby close to your heart, but don't keep holding the blame and guilt! You didn't know you were pregnant when you got the IUD!
thankyou so much i really havent been able to talk to many ppl about it thanks for your comments i feel maybe it wasnt all my fault now i guess a part of me will always wonder if i did the right thing but then again i will never know so cant change it i guess,
thankyou JoyRenee you gave me courage :) xx
Not one person will know what i went threw that day i gave her up to this day i torture myself with thoughts of it all, but thankyou for giving me hope :) i know she will always be with me and this makes me strong yet soehow this sort of thing will always make you feel so along thanks for all ur kind words xx
they put a mirena IUD in my cousin when she was pregnant too. the figured it out a lot faster and got it out and she was ok and the baby was too but they are in no way doing a good job of running good pregnancy tests before putting them in. they should be running bloodwork.
i am so sorry that happened to you.