to know or not to know...

[butter1709]

...that is the question. Gender appointment Tuesday! I am still traumatized from the subcorionic hematoma situation that I am really just Eger to hear that it is gone and my baby is alive and healthy. (Felt no kicks yet, but not bleeding anymore either) any who. I don't know if I want to know the gender. I don't want another girl so if they don't tell me I know I will be happy with whatever I get at birth. Also if u get a boy I don't think I can emotionally handle the amount of joy that would poor from my body, seeing as I have been so stressed out this entire pregnancy. Part of me wants to go to my appointment alone. Because I've gone to all the other appointments alone( my husband is retarded, for lack of a better word) well the truth is he always makes me mad around appointment time so his punishment is he can't go lmao yes it is immature. Any who. Someone said to out it in an envelope and open when I'm ready ...but I do want to know I just...I dunno.so confused any body not know and get what they wanted? Or not know and get what they weren't wanting but got over it and fell in love anyways? Or did someone find out and wish they kept a surprise?...we found out with our first so we could prepare.

[shawnastone]

My bf and I didn't find out gender, this is our first to. Its an amazing experience not knowing. :)

[mrsMartinez91]

If I have another just have birth 7/27 I would like a girl but I wouldn't want to find out gender till birth but my husband said he would wanna know and he'd ruin the surprise for me :(

[Babyy2DueFeb22]

I have a son already and this time around I was hoping for another boy sooooooo bad but its a girl... I was very upset at first because everyone kept telling me it was a girl and I was like no its another boy.. well like three hours after they told me a girl I was so excited and now I can't wait for my princess to come :) I feel kinda mean for being upset that she was a girl at first but after it settled in I was/am stoked !!