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am I the only one?

Ok so im 35.4 weeks in and I cant wait to be done with this pregnancy. So like everyone else ive been having alot of cramping and my feet r sollwen, my legs hurt, and my back is a nightmare. Basically all over my body hurts. But I just cant bring myself to ask my hubby to give me a massage.  I know if I ask he will and ill be alot more relaxed but I just cant. I feel like its rude to ask him to do something like that.  My mom says that its his part to take care of me but I dont think I can. I've always been weird like this. I feel selfish and rude if I even think of asking someone to do anything for me.  Especially something like a message. But it hurts. I wish he would understand himself and just do it without me asking but I highly doubt it. :( oh well almost there, just 4 more weeks.  I've survived this long.... just a little longer.  
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If only they would understand and just do it without us asking. Anywho good luck guys. Almost there.  
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I only have 5 weeks left and my hubby doesn't even when I ask like as if its so hard
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I know how you feel though.  I've got 4wks 5days left. I'm right there witcha.  Good luck & hope we both have easy delivery ! :p
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8541403 tn?1409425380
You're carrying his child.  He shouldn't mind simply rubbing your back for you. Don't be afraid to ask. You're giving him the biggest favor yet that's the least he can do in return.  
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