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i need someone to talk to !
ugh i hate the way my mother in law is especially her to youngest kids ! the boy is 3 -&& the daughter is 12 . they dont ever listen they are always screaming -&& giving they stupid attitude ! the lil boy always wants everything i have like i tell him no -&& he starts yelling -&& crying like he is getting killed ! ughh i hate it so bad ! they both dnt understand wat NO means ! -&& well my mother in law doesnt want me to say s.h.i.t to them cuz those are her baby's but i mean they annoy the f.u.c.k out of me ! my boyfriend doesnt understand he seems to be okay with the way they are but im not ! i cant stand them -&& its making me hate my boyfriend for always being on their side ! i just wanna cryy !
You don't train kids lol, you train pets...you teach children....and if you think any child is going to be 100% well behaved at all times you're wrong. Children learn through their mistakes if properly corrected and talked to about it. Sit down and talk to them about it there will probably be more respect shown that way instead of yelling or carrying on, I wouldn't expect ANYONE to show me respect if I didn't show it to them in turn.
That isn't good becuase they should respect you and your belongings. My son started going through peoples purses when he turned two but he learned it wasn't ok just by me telling him it wasn't ok so a 12 year old should understand. I had the same problem with my youngest brother who was 5 at the time having a lack of respect for my boyfriend and his stuff but after talking to him and explaining it to him he learned it wasn't okay. By the sound of it no one disciplines these children and that isn't ok. It's going to affect the kind of people who they become in the future. As for taking stuff from you boyfriend's sisters room I wouldn't do that just because your old enough to know better, and it's an example that you set and I'm sure she isn't gonna see it the way you see it. She'll probably get mad scream and end up fighting with her mother about it. If I was you I would talk to their mother about it and your boyfriend and not go over until they agree to stop. Why would you want to go over knowing it's stressful?
Lilseamonkey i was really thinking of doing that cuz it has really got to me already ! i will def. do that soon so she can know how i feel ! i mean i wont mind letting her borrow my things but ask for them dont just take them !
The next time she takes something go into her room and go through her stuff. Take whatever you think will bother her the most. It'll teach her that you mean business and she can't act like that. She's 12 ffs not a little kid. Let her scream and do whatever. Don't even listen to her mother. You're an adult and you're about to be a mother. It's time they ALL start treating you with that kind of respect and not like an annoyed teenager.
i agree with you val_mommy2ba ! i understand they are kids but they need to know right from wrong !
There is no such thing as an unmanageable child in my opinion it's called training those kids need some training everybody trains their children differently these days but it's all about training them to respect others and their belongings how would they feel if you went in their rooms and took something that goes for a 3 year old to a teenager to an adult put it this way if you don't train them at home somebody will do it out in the streets or in jail.
we have locked the doors but they open our door with something idk with what cuz it has to be a key but they get in ! i have hid things but like i said they go through everything ! my sister in law always gets my straightner shoes shocks -&& whatever fits her or whatever floats her boat ! the same with the lil boy but he throws everything on the floor !
I know what you mean! I mean kids are always gonna be kids but rules gotta be set early or else their rude behavior sticks with then. My bfs nephew is only 5 but sometimes he gets on my nerves. Slamming doors, screaming, hitting, throwing things at people, constant temper tantrums, tell him no he does it even more.. I get annoyed but I can't say anything it's not my kid.. Just bite my tongue , my bf agrees with me that's how bad that lil kid is lol you could always put a lock on your door or hide things ..
i dont live with him , i just go over on weekends ! my mom doesnt want me to move out just yet cuz im 18 going to college she wants me to worry bout college -&& not bills . same goes for him with his mom . but i mean my sister in law is 12 she should understand but just doesnt wanna listen when i tell her no ! she is just spoiled -&& started acting more like a brat when we told her it was a girl she got mad she said she didnt want nothing to do with the baby cuz she was suppose to be the only girl but i ruined it for her ! she thinks the world revolves around her only !
Get ur own place thats all i can say. My SIL would actually come and steal my clothes, makeup, etc. and shes only two yrs younger then my hubby. We had to get a lock with keys for our bedroom because she was that bad. My parents in law didnt like it but i told them 'i appreciate that you took me in but i give you cash from my paycheck everytime i get paid, i do more cleaning in here cuz i hate living in a pig style house and your daughter just destroyed 200$ worth of make up, if ur not going to make sure she doesnt steal tgen i will' theres a limit to how rude people are and she was beyond. That makeup is from mary kay compagny my mom joined but she was terrible at it lol she prefered putting make up on and on her last batch she got 500$ worth but dropped out and gave me half of it. They didnt argue because in all seriousness they didnt have the money to pay me back for what she did. We moved out pretty fast because they were so disgusting! It was like really nasty in their house and i couldnt take it. They always wabted more money to spebd on ebay and we never had basic food in the house. Kraft diner abd mister noodles....just move out as fast as you can! Thats all i can say. But i kinda get what you mean. Some people dont wabt to disciplune theur kids and they become brats. Just remember that thats exactly how you dont want to raise ur kid lol
They sound curious. I have nieces and a nephew who does stuff like that all the time when I go visit them but really its nothing you can do besides get a lock on your door and put up all the things that you don't want them to see/ touch. Kids are going to be kids. If you guys can look to get your own place soon thats the only way you'll have complete privacy and no annoyances.
i understand they are kids but they do it on purpose ! i cant tell them to lower their voice or anything like she goes to our room gets my things with out permission -&& then im the d.u.m.b a.s.s looking for them like crazy while she has them over there ! or when the lil boy goes in our room he starts looking through all our stuff thinking we have candy when we dont ! they only do it to me cuz they dont do that to my brother in law or to my mother in law . last time he had my thongs -&& bras on like wat the hell !
Really? They are kids and thats kinda what kids do. I get the fact that they are annoying but why exactly are you looking for your boyfriend to do exactly?
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