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I'm 32 weeks pregnant. But throughout my whole pregnancy I've never really been in the mood anymore! Except maybe once in the beginning lol but I feel bad for my boyfriend so sometimes I do it just to please him. He don't force me or anything it's not his fault tho. Am I the only one who feels like this??
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I'm in the same boat. I'm 36 weeks now and have been waiting for the mood to kick back in but so far nothing. My poor husband has been so understanding thru out this past few months. I feel so bad for him. At this point I don't see him getting lucky until after the baby is born, lol.
To top it of we went in for my check up and the doctor said she can feel the top of the baby's head with her finger already. So no way he's going to poking around anywhere near my baby's head. He totally agree, said he doesn't want to put a dent on our baby's head, haha. Other told us sex is still safe at this point but we're first timer and really don't want to take any chances. So it seem like there's going to a couple more months of dry spell for us.
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2021096 tn?1328921005
Oh I'm 22weeks and never in the mood. You guys are lucky your men are understanding, all mine does is tell me how I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore...ugh I tell him its just the pregnancy which it is bc b4 I got pregnant we were all the time.
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I'm 39w6d and my baby's head been so low for three weeks, my hubby has been scared his going to poke the baby. so I'm the opposite, I want sex now because after the baby is born, I have to wait a while, but hubby is the one Nahh. It makes me so mad. lol.
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i was the same i never wanted to but i did just to please him at about 30 weeks o really really didnt want to and i hated him being dissappointed but i told him straight i didnt want to anymore tell i felt comfortable and he understood that. so your not alone haha now o have only 8 days to go haha
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Ohhh goodness welcome to the club... ive hated sex my entire pregnancy but ever since i hit 37 wks i want it everynight (but only bcus im using the sperm to try n help induce labor lol) but he doesn't know that soo he just thinks im getting my sex drive back and im pretty sure hes loving it haha... im 39 wks now and we've done it more in 2 wks than my entire pregnancy combined.
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Haha that's so funny I got my sex drive back once I wanted the sperm to soften my cervix too lol I'm 39 weeks today and.ever since my last doc appt that's always his excuse to have sex lol he will say it helps to induce labor.. men! Lol
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I'm 37+1 and just in the past week the mood has kicked in. I hadn't really been in the mood too often so just this past week my husband has been extra touchy trying to see if I'm still in the mood Haha.
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im 33weeks. and ive been in the mood but my husbands not :( this is our 2nd child we have a lil girl now were expecting a boy and a he has not wanted to touch me or have sex the entire pregnancy cuz he says he doesnt like that theres a baby in me :( but with our daughter he wasnt like that  makes me reallllllyy sad. :(
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Thank God I'm not the only one! I hope I get my sex drive back toward the very end like some of you girls :-).
@Mommaloves2 - that is really sad :-(.I'm sorry try to convince him wear something sexy and seduce him ;-)
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