What to think...?

[PurpleLush07]

So today I recieved some text messages that were very convincing. Saying this girl is 6 1/2 months pregnant by my childrens father. Im hurt and dont know what to think. He says he hasnt been intament with any one but me. But this person knew intament stuff about me and him as well as when our baby is due and my daughters name and age. I just dont know im 29 weeks and now severly stressed. Oan she says she hasnt told him, knew my age were I live and has seen my cat.
What I dont get is this ao called person is bold enough to txt me but is txting me off of  "pinger.com" so who ever it is, is obviously scared or is just mad or jealous because I allowed him back home. Please I would love for opinions im ready to tear my hair out.

[shelleversole]

I agree with some of the aboves....its really easy to find out intimate details about people online. For example. I have my facebook completely private to anyone I am not friends with on there, but if this person is friends with someone youre close to, a parent, grandparent spouse, cousin, sister, aunt, chances are they have athered infor through these peoples pages, it could also very well be someone who is close to your husband and wants to split you,even if hes done nothing to make them think theyd get away with it. People are crazy, and these aboves are also right. Without a paternity test theres no real way to know if its true or not. Just knowing this person is being so anonymous should throw up red flags about whether theyre being truthful. Don't stress over it or give your hubby a hard time, thats what the person wants, and it isn't fair to accuse someone you love of something so bad, when a total stranger doesn't even have the gall to come out and be honest about who they are.

[Kimejo_81]

Call her out girl. Tell her ' ok if he got you pregnant then file for a court ordered paternity test, when the bby is born, otherwise stay out of our lives'. Honestly then I would think nothing of it. Sounds like a chick who wants ur man....however if there is a bby and the test comes back she's telling the truth, then and only then do u have a choice to make. Best of luck.

[PurpleLush07]

Thanks u guys... Im gonna try and ignore it for now and not let these hormones get to me. Ims try and get dime sllep all this excitement is wearing me out.

[beauty12]

Thn ignore her completely... I know its bit hard especially what u hve bern through... Just tell u dont care n she can go do whatever the hell she wants... If by chance she is genuine she ll try n contact u other ways...

[OorahMommy]

Unless he signs a birth certificate she won't get any money out of him without a paternity test so if she really is pregnant whoever she is then you will be receiving a court date in the mail. If not age was bluffing. I really doubt this girl is pregnant or sleeping with your husband you would be amazed the information you can find out about someone on the internet. I think she's just a psycho jealous stalker

[PurpleLush07]

She just said shes gonna hit him up for his money. Told her he loves her and so on. But if she seen him on thanksgiving wouldnt she have been showing if shes 6 months...  I just dont know and if she kniws about me like she claimed then she should kniw im the one shed have to worrie about. I dont let females cone in the way of my family. So Idk... And she wont say who she is..

[beauty12]

Hmmm... Someone could be using ur information to break u both up... Its reLmally hard to say something unless she has some proofs... How abt asking her for proof... Coz ifirst thing u really need to know is that is it someone real? If u think u know by any chance she is scared dont tell ur husband ask her to either meet u by sound of it that could be one his m8 doing it... But main thing for u to find out is who is she? Someone like that can or can not be danger. ... I would tell her if she has guts why not come infront of u... If she is asking help from u thn y not ask on face rather sending message?

[Bri_1985]

I wouldnt believe it despite how convincing it is. Could just be someone jealous who had a liking for him and they're friends or something. Ive actually had something similar to this happen to my hubby and I at our old workplace. It turned out to be my ex whom my hubby "stole" me from. Which to clarify, he didnt "steal" me, my hubby got me out of a bad relationship so I see it as he "rescued" me.

[HeidyLoves]

Sorry to hear that
Im kinda in same boat
I found a receipt from victoria secret for a bra
And 5 thongs . Basiclly after so much arguining
He admited to it. I dont know what to do my hed hurts im always crying & so on.
Hope u find peace and try to relax theres not much we can do :-( except leave them or forgive them...idk