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How do you find out more about someone when all you know about them is their phone number?! I might be having this guys baby and I have no idea how to threaten him to child support if he doesn't cooperate with getting this paternity test done! He's not cooperating so far he is only replying to my text messages.
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Here we have what's called Attorney General, IDK if it goes beyond TX or if there's anything similar where you're from.but all you HAVE to have is their first name and a phone number. Generally they have ways of getting more info on them and help organize a court ordered paternity test.
Give him some time. He is probably still trying to process the whole idea of him having a chance to be the father. Don't worry, everything has a way of working out.
Lol, I'm sure he will come around eventually. At least he is talking to you and not ignoring you.
I did and he keeps telling me to calm down and I'm just like say yes already damit lol
Just let him know it's best to find out now than to be dragged to court for DNA testing and stuff.
I can't I'm trying not to say anything to him until i find out for sure. I NEEED this other guy to help and he's always been so stupid Idk why I slept with him it makes me just as stupid but Im just trying to help him and me out
If its only between those 2 guys then woundnt be easier to test the boyfriend/fiance? And go from there.
I don't know about the states y'all live in, but I talked to my sperm donors probation officer, and he told me he wanted to sign his rights up and they told me I can still sue him for child support even if he does sign his rights up so either way he's the one getting banged in the *** first he will be paying child support and second he won't have **** to do with MY baby!!
Yeah and the good thing about it is it can also be used in court so that's always good I just hope its my bfs this other guy is a pain in the butt!
I hope he does come around and agree to take the test because it would save you a lot of time and money once the baby is born.
Ugh he really does not want to take this test. It's aggravating me but at least he's being nice. I think he'll come around though
The courts can look him up if you know his number, first and last name, the city he lives in and the fact that you know the high school he went to helps. Like I said, don't push the test on him because he might be scared to take it. Give him a few days. He might come around.
I'm not actually ever going to put him on child support I don't want my kid to even know him I just want something to be able to say "if you don't cooperate and this baby ends up being yours ill take you to court" but I can't because he knows I don't know much of his information
Just know if you are going to ask for child support you are giving him the right for visitation.
You can't do anything about child support until after the baby is born, and even then they will want a DNA test before going into the process of child support. Just tell the guy it'll save a lot of drama and court costs later on if he agrees to do it now. Don't push him into doing it though because then he might not want to. Give him a day or two and if he doesn't reply back, then try to contact him again.
I'm paying 1600 for the prenatal paternity test just to find out I just want to be sure because if it is not this other guys then it is my bfs and it will save a lot of heartache. It is the safe test where they just draw blood that's why its so expensive. I know his first and last name and his phone number and what high school he went to but I want his address and job so I can just say ill put him on child support if he doesn't cooperate. It's not like I even want him in my child's life even if it is his
Wait until the baby is born so you can test the baby's DNA with your fiance's DNA first. Then tell him he needs to take a DNA test for the baby and if he says no, the court will make him go and get tested. I wouldn't stress too much about it right now.
You dont know his last name or anything else? That is a difficult situation, if you only have his cell phone number.
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