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sister sister fight
So my older sister has been living with My husband and I for some months now. We never had any problems until she started bringing her boyfriend over. He literally lives here. But the thing that gets me is that he doesn't pay rent, doesn't contribute to food or any cleaning. So this morning I woke up and he had a mess in my clean living room... I tested my sister asking her please to tell her boyfriend to clean his mess. She came out of her room screaming and yelling at me of how I'm so rude and inconsiderate... all I asked was his stuff to get picked up. Then she got in my face saying she was going to beat me up, that's where my,husband stepped in. And she threatened him too. I told her they are both to leave my house by the first of the month for good. I tired to keep my cool and not yell but I did yell a little bit.... I'm just praying it didn't hurt baby... but I'm worried.
Just to be safe have the police there to escort her out! She'll get it and let them know you're pregnant! I would go about it in a different way lol but I let my temper get the best of me!
Lol @neshalyn Yea. That's what I wanted to do. But I tried being nice. I had no problems with my sister until she brought him. And then everything went down hill. I wouldn't mind it if he pitched in or cleaned or bought food, played rent ect... but he did nothing!! And I'm not having that. All I asked was for him to pick up his 3 cups that were in the living room which I just cleaned and she flipped. And then when she threatened to beat me up I just had enough and told her she has till the first to get out. I'm not going to have some one risk my babies health and life because she doesn't like my rules. And then she tried to text my mom and talk about me to her. My mom told her straight up... I'd be sick and tired of it too if I was her. So I'm glad my mother and husband stuck up for me. I just know that from now till the first it's going to be hell... ugh.
Ya your too nice o would have told her boyfriend to get the hell out now, he had no one ls permission to move in so he does not live there and give her the first . And of she didn like that I'd tell her to leave now too.
Your house, your rules. Your sister and her partner need to respect that. I'm sure your baby will be fine. Just get a nice relaxing bath and chill out. Don't stress out too much. X
Thank you for the advice. My husband wouldn't let her come close enough to hit me. I would have pressed full charges on her if she would have. And no cramps or bleeding. I tried not to yell or get upset but I can't believe that she came at me crazy like that when like you all say, I help her out. And I've bitten my tongue until now. My heart was pounding a bit but that was probably be cause I was so worked up. I'm 13+3 days pregnant.
sounds somthing like my sister i now do not talk to her due to the fact that.every time she would come over she would.steel something from my house my husband bought me and my daughter marching jordends for xmas and her daughter told me she took them and sold them to a guy at circle k for gas money me or my husband dont ever want her at are house again ya shes my sister but she cant keep taking my stuff
Nope it didn't hurt baby but too much stress everyday maybe can affect you.
Don't let anyone take advantage of you.
Don't let anyone take advantage of you.
Oh goodness, that totally *****. She sounds a little like my sisters, they say not to bite the hand that feeds you, but that seems like what she is doing. I had a little spat on Sunday, I yelled at my mom & husband, I felt so horrible after. & got a little worried that I may have hurt the baby, but I'm sure everything is fine. If you don't see or feel cramps, right? That's what I said anyway to calm myself. I'm 12w3d. & feel fine. So just don't stress it, and stay away from that drama.
As long ur baby wasnt hit or anything I dont see why it hurt the baby. Yoir baby is fine and for ur older sister should be ashamed of herself.
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