to avoid pregnancy

[nitin_chagla]

I want to know about my wife her last menstural period has crossed and its 20 days above. We have made a pregnancy test using pregnancy test kit and it shows positive. I need to know is there any way where we could avoid the pregancy by using medicine under supervision from doctor. My wife is going to see a doctor today.

I just need to know that is it save of aborting the pregancy in 1st month for woman.

Thankyou

[heatherlynn22]

i just dont get why people post asking about abortion on a PREGNANCY  forum...obviously all here either are or want to be pregnant........


*hugs tummy and tells brett & eli mommy loves you both*

[Rosa20]

AGREE!! Well said everyone!!

[alwshopeful]

I agree with the ladies above, you really should consider where you are posting such comments/questions.  I, myself have been TTC for 6 months with my hubby to no avail.  There are some women who would LOVE to be in your position and you are wanting to get rid of this gift that YOU created.  Why even risk having unprotected sex if you are not ready to handl the consequences.  I think you should man up, take responsibility and care for the child.  It is not the child's fault that you and your wife had unprotected sex and created the little one.  I'm not trying to be rude, but really think about this.

[sim23]

plz don't abort the baby... thats god .

[Becky30]

I agree with Rosa20.  

I believe it is too late for the "morning-after" pill or medication anyway.  An abortion at this stage would be an out-patient procedure in which they literally either suck the baby out limb by limb with a vacuum or cut it apart with a knife (D&C).

And abortion, though considered safe, still does have risks associated with it for the woman and her future pregnancies.

Please reconsider your desire and think about giving the baby up for adoption if you truly can't keep him or her.  There are thousands of couples who would love to just be able to get pregnant, and would love and nurture your baby, which God placed inside your wife's womb.

[Rosa20]

your married so why would you want to abort a baby??? THats your own flesh and blood!! A PART OF YOU!! A beautiful thing that you were able to make with your wife! Why would you want to get rid of it..a baby is a beautiful thing and you have been blessed with it..you should rethink you decision and not abort and cherish what god has given you..alot of women on here do not get that privilage! And also...next time do not go on a pregnancy forum asking how to get abortions and if its safe..I dont think abortion is ever safe! A baby is meant to come out of you on its own not forced out to die!  Just so you know if you  go ahead with this there may be concquences...such as she may be too scarred to have kids again and there ar always regrets of getting rid of a hild...Im sorry but i do not agree with this post whatsoever!

[tarajanes]

Your wife would be able to have an abortion in the first month.if you are going to the doctors then why would you post this here,we are not doctors,but ladies as previous posts has said,we are ladies desparate to become mommys,some of which have lost there child.please take note of where you are posting.and consider contraception in future.

[eel81]

i dont want to be mean but why do people come on this site and ask about abortion. this is a site for women who are or who are trying some women for years. this is not the site to ask that question. i am one of those women trying and this upsets me that i have been trying for months, you havent and you get it and want to abort. i am sorry but this is not hte site for this.